Our Poor Friends

@DianneN (248644)
United States
February 11, 2026 9:18am CST
Remember my friend with cancer? She’s still receiving treatment once a month in New York and just returned to Florida last week. I haven’t had a chance to see how her numbers are doing, because we are all more concerned with her husband. He was too ill to fly back with her. He has congestive heart failure, COPD, and just had aortic valve surgery yesterday. She told me the surgery went well. We had to cancel our New Year’s Eve plans, because he was feeling so poorly. I invited them to dinner about two weeks later and he seemed well enough, but his legs were so swollen, he kept coughing, and fell asleep in mid sentence. I am so worried about them both. On a better note, hubs took me shopping yesterday. I’m at the dentist wearing one of my new outfits. As soon as he gets his crown work done, we’re going out for brunch where they serve delicious 5 egg omelettes, homemade fried potatoes, and huge slices of homemade breads along with a doggie bag!
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@DaddyEvil (167583)
• United States
3h
I'm glad you're planning for a fun day.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
After his crown work, it should be fun
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@DaddyEvil (167583)
• United States
3h
@DianneN Hopefully, your hubby will enjoy it, too.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
@DaddyEvil Hubs enjoys anything involving food. He already chose this restaurant
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@dodo19 (47552)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
3h
I'm sorry to hear about your friends. It can't be easy for them at the moment.
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@dodo19 (47552)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
3h
@DianneN Oh goodness. Definitely sounds like it has been awful for them. I'm glad that the meds worked. Hopefully they get better soon.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
@dodo19 Thanks for understanding.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
No, it’s been awful for them both. My friend had to find new doctors in Florida for him. He wasn’t even strong enough for the surgery until yesterday. Hubs had to lift him into a wheelchair for his last doctor appointment on Friday to determine if the meds helped him get strong enough. Apparently, they worked.
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@AmbiePam (112381)
• United States
3h
I can’t imagine what kind of stress they are under. It sounds like you have a good reward to having to visit the dentist.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
They are under a huge amount of stress, which doesn’t help their conditions at all. I offered to come to the dentist with hubs when he bribed me with brunch afterwards
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3h
I'm so sorry for your friends, that is so heart breaking. I will be praying for them, God knows their names.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
Thanks so much and yes he does
@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
3h
Hope your friends heal faster and enjoy a great date with Mr Hub!
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
Thanks so much. My stomach is growling right now. So hungry!
@Kandae11 (56996)
3h
So sorry about your friends. I hope they both regain their health.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
Thanks so much. It does not look good for either of them, but they are fighter.
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@snowy22315 (202767)
• United States
3h
Good I hope you feel like eating it. That's a lotta food. I wouldn't mind trying a 5 egg omelet sometime.
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@FourWalls (82815)
• United States
2h
Is the doggie bag fried or baked? I’m so sorry to hear about your friends. Dang congestive heart failure. My niece’s next-door neighbor is suffering with that, too. Prayers for both of them. Glad you got your crown work down with fashion!
@jstory07 (147412)
• Roseburg, Oregon
51m
I hope you enjoy the food and the rest of your day.
@LeaPea2417 (39470)
• Toccoa, Georgia
1h
I'm very sorry about your friend's health problems. I do remember you mentioning the wife had Cancer.That is sad about the husband. I am glad his surgery went well. Prayers for both of them.
@LadyDuck (493036)
• Italy
2h
I am so sorry for your friend and her husband. Very hard when both are unwell in a family. Glad you had an enjoyable shopping and brunch.
• United States
3h
I'm sorry to hear about your friends. It's sad that they're both going through health issues. A shopping day with the hubby sounds like a great day to me. And, wearing your new outfit and going out for brunch is certainly a happy day for you.
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@DianneN (248644)
• United States
3h
We became such good friends when we first met in Florida and spent every New Year’s Eve together except for 2018 due to her chemotherapy. And this one. Yes, I am so happy that hubs dragged me out of the house. I turned him down on Monday.
@TheHorse (234802)
• Walnut Creek, California
2h
Sending healing thoughts to your friends.