Dumb Trip For No Reason.
By DE
@DaddyEvil (167640)
United States
February 11, 2026 3:55pm CST
So the neurologist's office called and set up an appointment to talk to me this afternoon. Nobody gave me the name of the doctor I'd be seeing, just the address of the office and a time to check in. (Remember, this is a 70 mile [112 km] trip one way just for a consultation.)
When we got there, we waited around 20 minutes and my name was called. We were taken back to an office and an LPN came in and started talking with me/us. I asked when we'd see the specialist and she told me she needed to talk to me first.
She asked me a bunch of questions and then asked me to walk down the hallway and back again so she could see my gait. When I was back in the exam room, she talked to me about things happening here at home (the two falls) and how I was feeling and if I understood what she was talking about. I said I understood so she told me to explain what was happening so she was sure I understood... So I did.... She said I sounded coherent and asked Pretty if there were any problems reaching the office.
I told the nurse that I didn't have any problems on the drive up or in the city. She acted surprised and asked if I still drove. I told her Pretty couldn't drive and I don't trust other people to drive me places. I still have my license and might have to ask where we're going but that's the only problems I've had.
She asked Pretty if I was normally irritable and I replied, "Only when you talk about me as if I'm not right in front of you and perfectly capable of answering for myself. Please don't do that again." (Pretty agreed with me.)
I asked again when I'd speak to the neurologist and she said this was a preliminary consultation and if I really wanted to talk to the doctor, we'd have to make another appointment for that.
I stood up and Pretty stood up, too. We were ready to leave. The nurse was surprised although I don't know why and said she wasn't done talking to me/us. We sat back down... and she explained again what the x-rays showed... (The nurse at the ER had already explained what was found on the x-rays.)
Finally, she handed me a sheaf of papers and said someone would call, probably within a couple of weeks to set up an appointment to talk to a neurologist.
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10 responses

@GardenGerty (167669)
• United States
3h
@DaddyEvil That stinks. Someone is too high and mighty.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
1h
@GardenGerty Or, and I don't like to think about this too hard, they feel like they're too busy to answer "silly" questions a new patient may have.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
6h
I don't understand why I drove that far and didn't talk to someone that knew anything.
I really hope so, thanks.
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@wolfgirl569 (129413)
• Marion, Ohio
5h
They could have done all that by phone. Is it possible to find a different one. I would have been pissed at her too.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
5h
Apparently not. I suggested going to a different doctor and said I'd have to do a preliminary interview with a nurse where ever I went.
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@toniganzon (73207)
• Philippines
5h
You drove that far only to talk to a nurse? I'm no belittling them but aren't you supposed to see a neurologist? A specialist is what you need.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
5h
Yes, I was supposed to see the specialist. Pretty was angry about this trip, too, on our way home.
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@RasmaSandra (94142)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6h
Sorry, I didn't understand half of anything here, I hope you get some good answers about what concersn you from the neurologist.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
6h
I'm sorry. I can explain in another way if that would help?
I was given a "possible diagnosis" at the ER a few days ago. The ER nurse said the x-rays showed too much cerebrospinal fluid in my head that was putting pressure on parts of my brain that could explain my getting dizzy and falling lately.
They recommended I talk to a brain specialist.
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@RasmaSandra (94142)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6h
@DaddyEvil now I understand and yes, to help you and decide what to do i think it is a good idea to see a brain specialist.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
6h
@RasmaSandra I hope they can see me soon-ish. I was nervous about it before and now I'm angry and nervous.
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@sallypup (67938)
• Centralia, Washington
5h
First, that is a long long trip each way. I wish you had a support system. That kind of medical crud is why I sit here with swollen legs and no compression socks or further evaluation into why my legs are swollen. I'm sorry that the health care system has failed you.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
5h
It hasn't failed me yet but it's not looking good at the moment.
If you were a little closer, I'd drive you to and from doctor appointments or where ever you wanted to go. 

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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
1h
@sallypup You're very welcome.
Thank you.
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@lovebuglena (49129)
• Staten Island, New York
4h
Such a long trip and you didn’t get the answers you were looking for. Such a waste of time this was. And frustrating too.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
4h
Yes, it was and very frustrating... I hope the next appointment goes better.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
1h
If they make me angry, I might not be as polite as your hubby. It has happened before.
@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
1h
Even hours later, I'm still feeling irritated about the way I was treated in that "preliminary interview".
@Traceyjayne (7738)
• United Kingdom
5h
Oh dear ….sorry you had a wasted journey.
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@DaddyEvil (167640)
• United States
4h
We were both irritated and trying not to show it. Thanks.
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