I'm Just Complaining...

By DE
@DaddyEvil (177629)
United States
September 1, 2026 12:57pm CST
Pretty keeps buying "stuff" we don't need and don't have room to store. Most of the problem with "stuff" is that it needs to be assembled after it arrives. She doesn't want to do the work and I basically can't do the work now. We have a new cabinet in the kitchen that needs assembled. The two large cardboard boxes of parts have taken up half the kitchen floor since last summer and I dragged in a large box this morning that says it contains an ebike (assembly required). She just bought a new bicycle last year she doesn't ride. It's okay to ignore this "discussion".
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@Traceyjayne (13437)
• United Kingdom
9h
We all need to complain sometimes x Is she planning on selling the bike she already had ? Is she waiting for your brother to come to put these things together ?
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@DaddyEvil (177629)
• United States
9h
I don't know what she's planning on doing with it. It's out in the garage right now. My brother can't do that type of work anymore, either. He still gives us rides when we need one but that's about the only thing he does. (He's taking us to renew our Section 8 paperwork tomorrow in Mt. Vernon.)
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@Traceyjayne (13437)
• United Kingdom
8h
@DaddyEvil I didn't think Pretty was into buying things she didn't need !
@Wrexxo (6405)
10h
Lol...I guess she needs to get someone to assemble the stuffs
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@DaddyEvil (177629)
• United States
10h
That would be nice but she doesn't want to pay someone to do the work.
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@Wrexxo (6405)
10h
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@FourWalls (87461)
• United States
10h
No, it’s okay to complain. I do that occasionally myself…the problem is, I can’t blame anyone else for buying things that I don’t need and can’t assemble!
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@Juliaacv (57386)
• Canada
9h
Honestly I do not think that there would be alot of parents who couldn't identify with how you are feeling. On top of that, you are adjusting to being out of the hospital and the whole issue with your health.
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@sallypup (69769)
• Centralia, Washington
9h
That would aggravate me. One of the sources for arguments in my house is assembling stuff. I have no aptitude and hubby is generally no longer eager to attempt to figure things out. And then there are the horrible manuals.....
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@DaddyEvil (177629)
• United States
9h
I had the boxes in the kitchen standing on their sides so they didn't take up much room but she claimed a couple of months ago that she was afraid the parts would warp standing like that so she laid them down and opened the boxes.
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• United States
8h
Can you talk to her about using that money for things you two NEED instead of just things she wants?
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@toniganzon (80033)
• Philippines
4h
I wonder why she keeps buying stuff she doesn't actually use.
@crossbones27 (53693)
• Mojave, California
4h
Nah, its funny and I do same thing with sister and brother. I know as soon as they buy something some times its a waist of money, will be used only three times and tossed aside never to be used again like a Exercise machine or a keyboard. That being said they are both great at putting their waste of money together. The problem is they still take up room and get dusty and become an eye sour, then they start complaining about money.
@wolfgirl569 (139913)
• Marion, Ohio
7h
An e bike is a little different
@rakski (160016)
• Philippines
50m
I wonder what is in Pretty's mind when buying it? I am sure she knows she won't assemble it so why buy if no one can assemble those stuff
@RasmaSandra (100397)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6h
Boy, you guys really need me. When I moved to Latvia, I shipped over a lot of furniture and stuff that needed assembling, so during the first months, guess who assembled everything: ME!!! Best of luck Perhaps this might help TaskRabbit — This platform connects you with local taskers who can assemble furniture, including beds and desks, right in your home.
@lovebuglena (53388)
• Staten Island, New York
3h
Hopefully one day soon you can get stuff assembled.
@nawala123 (22257)
• Indonesia
6h
May be she is impulsive. Buying something that she does not really need
@eLdav1s (918)
• Nigeria
Just now
It's perfectly normal to complain about things like this, have you tried having a conversation with her about it? Especially since you guys are running out of space to keep these things you rarely use, and the cost of buying them.
@AmbiePam (126090)
• United States
7h
That’s a pain in the rear, that’s for sure.
@marguicha (230454)
• Chile
8h
The only answer to this post would be that I love my daughters when I don´t hate them. No more comments.
• Torrington, Connecticut
8h
Might be time for a good old yard sale lol