vibimi

@vibimi (34)

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Gaining Weight During the Holidays

anne25penn @anne25penn (3305) • Philippines 12 Dec 12

We are all guilty of this. We eat a lot during the holidays, thus we gain weight. We all know which foods to avoid, but since Christmas comes just once a year we indulge. I can understand fifty or sixty years ago that families...

holiday feasts

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vibimi Actually those who are craving for sweets, pastries and all this kind of things, are really suffering during holidays. Being a little oversized, we know that lot of food and sweets harm us. But with all that plenty of foods around and seeing how the others eat...

12 Dec 12

How is your relationship with your in-laws?

arystine @arystine (1273) • Philippines 7 Dec 12

At the moment, my relationship with my mother-in-law is not good. My husband and my mother-in-law had a big misunderstanding early this year and they are not on speaking terms until now. So my mother-in-law is also not speaking to...

relationship

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vibimi Mine are great till now. Never had misunderstandings or things like that with them. I admit that they are smart in-laws. Mean that they know till where can push and where to stop regarding our relationship. That's true that it depends on how much they care...

8 Dec 12

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We run behind money but never run behind hapiness

sidd262 @sidd262 (28) • India 8 Dec 12

Its a common habit for many of us to run behind money in order to get hapiness.But we dont realize that the money can even become a cause of unhapiness.We think that we can buy hapiness with excess money,but thats not...

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vibimi For many of us having money means having everything, whatever we want from material goods to love, and consequently happiness. It's true that money doesn't make happiness, but without it we are unhappy as well. We need money for the most simple things like...

8 Dec 12

Parents killed their daughter for glancing at a boy in a passing motorcycle.

meumeu25 @meumeu25 (913) • United Arab Emirates 6 Dec 12

How horrible is that? When a motorcycle passed by, their 15 yrs. old daughter, who was standing outside their home glanced at the boy riding on it. Then the father grabbed her inside the house and beated her, told his wife to get...

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vibimi What if someone threw acid on him too. Just to feel on his skin how it is like. You know it is very convenient to do to others bad things. It is not him who suffer the pain and aches. I wish such people just live a terrible life themselves, suffer from the...

6 Dec 12

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Oh my! It hurts! Do I nee to be single forever after that depressing experience?

alias_paul @alias_paul (134) • Philippines 6 Dec 12

Moving on is the only way I can do to forget that bitter past. It hurts but what else can I do if she do not love me anymore? I can never force her to love me and that is the reality that I need to accept. Though the feeling is...

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vibimi No way, staying single forever. Are you kidding? Anyway, it's quite impossible not getting involved in it again. It just happens. Life is so beautiful, it deserves to be lived and not put aside. Love is the most wonderful thing on earth. You'll be disappointed...

6 Dec 12

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I lied because I was scared

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 6 Dec 12

This morning as I was feeding my dogs, a ragged man with unkempt hair and beard, must be in his 30's came outside the gate. When I looked, I caught his sharp-looking eyes looking at me and he asked for water. I do not want to be...

stranger

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vibimi One must find himself in such situations. And fear is a scaring beast too. Sometimes when in panic we can do unbelievable and unwanted things. We are more reasonable after but not in those moments. If your survival instinct advises you to act one way or...

6 Dec 12

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Are you inlove?

deine86 @deine86 (115) • Philippines 6 Dec 12

Have you ever been in love? So weird isn't it? Sometimes it makes you so immature, do crazy things, making you so vulnerable. Being in love can open your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. Like me,...

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vibimi Falling in love is woonderful. It is an amazing feeling. Those days we wander with tied eyes, see nobody and hear no one. It is important to be in love with the right person. So many times our dears, friends, parents see and realize our love errors. They often...

6 Dec 12

Do you think he will start helping me out and doing things for me now?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 5 Dec 12

Ok,even though I really know that I already do everything for my husband I'm going to take out time for myself to give him more attention. The other day I read an article that talked about treating your husband like a king or VIP....

vip

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vibimi Dear Dominique25, we women are made this way: to sacrifice ourselves for the others- husband, children, old parents, friends etc. Often we put ourselves aside and think of others. Why? Simply because we love them and want to make them happy. Who knows....

5 Dec 12

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What things do you do when you can sleep because your mind is still thinking?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 5 Dec 12

I have been having problems with this lately. When it's time that I should be getting some sleep I can't seem to go to sleep. My mind continues to think about all that is going on and how I should deal with it. Even though I know...

sleep

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vibimi Lately ir happens to me almost all the time. It occurs because of lots of problems and stress we pass. As for me, I go to sleep at night and wake up around 2-3 in the morning. I stay awake for about 2 hours till I manage to get asleep again. Many of these...

5 Dec 12

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Stay at home Dads....

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 5 Dec 12

My son is a stay at home Dad. He's 36 years old and his wife is 28. He worked in retail for many years and really hated it but had to do it to take care of his family. My d/i/l is an aesthetician and makes very good money and when...

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vibimi Nowadays it is difficult to stay at home for both parents. In order to keep paying bills they have to work. Of course, if one of them lost his/her job, or is needed to stay at home for babysitting, then it's another talk. It doesn't matter whether it's dad or...

5 Dec 12

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HELP! How to tell her "No thanks, I'm married".

valentinesdiner @valentinesdiner (1214) • United States 4 Dec 12

I hope that I am not alone in this one... I have a former girlfriend whom I see regularly on business who sometimes says things I take as too 'friendly' - - ** how do I know she has crossed that invisible line between being...

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vibimi Is it so difficult telling the truth, that you are married? By letting her behave the way she does you simply prolong this torment. ...unless you like it and do it deliberately. It's all up to you. In the end you are in between.

5 Dec 12

Problem solving to a husband with a bad behaviour

apriadiq @apriadiq (51) • Indonesia 5 Dec 12

My nephew has husband with a very bad behaviour.... Sometimes his insulting, angry without any reason when his bad mood appear and my nephew always try tobe patient....but it just enough... She want to maintain they realtionship...

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vibimi In a relationship where she is the victim almost all the time, there is no way of sticking to it. What for does she love her husband: for the bad treatment, for the insults she receives? If she loves him, he does NOT love her. Never let others treat you this...

5 Dec 12

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my working decision

FRANKOBA @FRANKOBA (34) • Nigeria 1 Dec 12

i have vowed never to work for anybody in this life. what do you think about this my decision? pls i need advice on this cos, is not easy setting up something

my working decision

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vibimi Good for you. Why do you think somebody would work for others? If you have all the necessary, I mean house, money, shortly things one needs for living, of course why work for others. Nobody would. What a pity that life is not exactly we like it to be. Good...

1 Dec 12

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Do you like to work with a noisy girl?

suildong @suildong (64) • China 30 Nov 12

There is a noisy girl in my office. while others are busy at work, she always keeps talking. I am rather bothered. But she is an older employee than me. so I feel I am not qualified to stop her. This almost drive me insane. SO who...

work

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vibimi Maybe telling her that you cannot concentrate on your work. Or asking her to help you with one or another thing, so she can at least talk about necessary things for you. Or complaining of a terrible headache, or just with the excuse of going to the bathroom,...

30 Nov 12

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How to handle office relations?

suildong @suildong (64) • China 30 Nov 12

recently i come into a new office with a few two others. the manager assigned some veteran to help us to get familiar with daily work. what puzzled me is that my veteran is not quite willing to help me. I feel frustrated and hope...

work

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vibimi Generally when a new one comes in an office it takes some time to know him/her. If you are in a place where you work is needed desperately they help you at once to learn it. If not it's up to you to 'steal' the tricks and ways of how doing what is needed from...

30 Nov 12

Why do people cheat in a relationship?

arreolabryan @arreolabryan (853) • Philippines 29 Nov 12

What do you consider cheating? I heard a lot of stories that there partner cheated on them? what should you do if you know your partner is cheating on you? Me I won't cheat on my girl. I might look but I wont cheat. how about...

love

relationship

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vibimi Cheating is in the human nature. It is really natural. As we are animals, when talking about some desires we act like animals without thinking too much. It was the man in the history who imposed the laws in the society (correct and good) and family. We have...

30 Nov 12

Investing for our future together

cgicale @cgicale (137) • Philippines 29 Nov 12

Me and my boyfriend are already investing for out future. We are on our 4th year of our relationship now. We are both young, he's 24, I'm turning 23. Even if we are still young we are already investing for our future. We are...

business

future

relationship

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vibimi Not a bad idea. It's kinna a hard these days to save some money for future. Glad for you. Other young people think to enjoy their lives and all the pleasures in the world when still young. For the house, family etc. there is time. You'll be submerged by these...

30 Nov 12

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Have you ever watched the white-and-black TV?

crystal_duan @crystal_duan (17) • China 29 Nov 12

Have you ever watched the white-and-black TV? The TV develops from white-and-black TV,colored TV,cable TV, to digital TV. Have you ever experience every stage of TV development? Colored TV improve the picture you watched, changing...

tv set

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vibimi When I was a kid till the age of 10, I (my family) didn't have a TV set at all. The first one my parents bought was a white-and-black TV. That day was memorable for me. I looked at that thing as to the eighth wonder of the world. Just watching the images...

30 Nov 12

If you got a Divorce and then won a Million dollors in the day how wouldyoufeel

goingeagle3 @eagletrek2 (5507) • Kingston, New York 29 Nov 12

Hi yes for me right now I'M single never been married but I was listening to people in the lottery line talking about dream etc, one person came up with this topic. When people get married the are in love most of the time and...

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vibimi Passing through a divorce is not having a joyful journey. But if you have to, well that was to happen. He or she was not your other half. Maybe in the world there is someone waiting for you. As for the million dollars, where are they? I would take them all;...

29 Nov 12

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Are you selfish during Christmas or do you care about making others happy?

abonner11 @abonner11 (46) 28 Nov 12

Now that I have grown older I am a big believer in making others happy during the holidays instead of getting things that I want. Do you feel the same way?

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vibimi Generally I don't spend money shopping, not for me not for anyone else. But on particular occasions: birthday, Christmas, Easter etc., I open my purse and don't mind how much I spend. Of course for my dear people. I like to see them happy, at least on...

28 Nov 12