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Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 1 Oct 11

Kelley Williams-Bolar is one of many parents who tried to "steal" a free public education for her children. http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111903285704576557610352019804.html?mod=WSJ_Opinion_LEADTop If the link...

amercian federation of teachers

education

educational theft

faking address on school enrollment forms

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censae Thank you so very much for this discussion. Talking about it all day is not enough. It should ring from the roof tops every time the sun shines. It will take a while for all of us to discover our real power. Thank you.

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Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 1 Oct 11

Kelley Williams-Bolar is one of many parents who tried to "steal" a free public education for her children. http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111903285704576557610352019804.html?mod=WSJ_Opinion_LEADTop If the link...

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censae This says to me that racism is alive and well. Of that I have no doubt anyway. It is very shameful that we as a society continue to court this issue. We as a civilized country continue to keep our monsters hidden and well protected by our own destructive...

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JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 28 May 11

I am a 32 year old mother of two wonderful children and is it wrong or weird that I don't really have a social life and prefer to spend my weekends in the house with my kids doing family stuff? Should I be out there enjoying a...

family

mother

parenting

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censae It is no doubt that you are a wonderful mother. Part of good and affective parenting is to prepare children for the world. In order for them to grow as children you must continue to grow as an adult. Lives are intertwined but we are all individuals with...

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alex_rae @alex_rae (22) • Philippines 16 May 11

For the past few weeks,I was doing great. I never heard anything from my ex. I was able to finally cope with my life and tend to forget the bad things that had happened between us. I was able to suppress the pain and eventually my...

ex

friends

letting go

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censae The great cover-up is effective for a while. That is not bringing resolution to the situation. Supressing feelings is not healing. Love is blind but you can not be. You are or should be able to control your own emotions. Facts are facts and feelings are...

17 May 11

aauecon06 @aauecon06 (204) • Philippines 31 Mar 10

Okay, that was what my thesis adviser had told me and I'm so struck by that. I know I'm really bad in technical writing but he didn't have to say it so bluntly. I'm a sensitive person and I can easily absorb everything that you...

technical writing

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censae Well. well do you want to write or do you want people to stroke you? People are sometimes jerks and sometimes don't know how to get a point across. If people are going to be evaluating you, get out of it what is valuable for you. You can not please everybody....

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lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 9 Jul 10

My mother has caused me a lot of pain emotionally through the years. She has made me feel small and unworthy. She has always looked at and treated my younger sister very different than me, my family see's this too. Whenever she...

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censae ...not to hear it...

15 Jul 10

lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 9 Jul 10

My mother has caused me a lot of pain emotionally through the years. She has made me feel small and unworthy. She has always looked at and treated my younger sister very different than me, my family see's this too. Whenever she...

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censae Clearly,your mother should carry this burden not you. It seems that she is the one who is missing out on those things that a wonderful daughter can give. You are talking about forgiveness rather than retaliation. That makes you a wonderful person. Do not...

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LillyBelleDaisyRose @LillyBelleDaisyRose (285) • United States 7 Jun 10

I want very badly to be a submissive wife. My husband and I have gone through alot in our short marriage, but I think alot of our problems is because I am very hot headed and head strong. And there is nothing wrong with that but...

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censae I think that first of all make sure you understand what the concept of submissiveness is. It sounds to me that you need to explore ways to develop some skills around the issue of self- control. There IS power in compromise. This sounds like a character trait...

15 Jul 10

megabiz @megabiz (185) • United States 14 Jul 10

I have this guy in my life that every time I try to do what is right/nice, he always has a comment to make. For instance, I am a good cook. Lots of people compliment me on my cooking as great. When I cook for him, he is so...

myself

people

relationship

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censae Are you serious? It is very clear who and what he is. I wonder about you. Ask the question of yourself, "What is in this for me?" Is this man a " project" for you? If you please him, will you have reached some milestone? I am sorry to say that your man is a...

15 Jul 10

censae @censae (72) • United States 30 Mar 10

When one reachs a certain age one is forced by the mind to engage in the re-evaluation process. It is stated in the behavior journals and courses that there is a period in our growth that this process occurs more intensley. Trust...

aging process

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cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 5 Jul 09

don't want to talk about the details of how we broke up.. it just really hurts more when i look back to what happened.i want to forget about him as soon as posible. .some would say that i should meet someone to replace my ex...

breaking up

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censae This response is late. I hope that you have done some healing from your broken relationship. I also hope that you do not transfer those things into another relationship. The greatest hope I have for you is to you recognize that it takes two to break a...

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snowy @snowy22315 (169966) • United States 25 Jul 09

I have a grown (although still young, son), 20 almost 21 who lives with my first husband. My second husband I was married to during most of his growing up and I are divorcing. I have a boyfriend now who my son is refusing to...

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censae I think he will come to terms with this in the future when his manhood is tested with real realationships. Your son, I suspect as with most boys, see their Mothers as their first relationship. They want that Mother to be perfect and pure. They take great issue...

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cassrufus @cassrufus (116) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

How can you feel the TRUE and FAKE LOVE?

love

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censae True love is a beautiful thing to be involved in. Recognize that there are levels of love. Unconditional love is reserved for very special relationships, those that are built on history and position in the person's life. Ponder whether or not you are up for...

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mahanjili @mahanjili (105) • India 15 Apr 09

We hear the people speaking 'good teacher'. But really, what does the good teacher mean or how to become good teacher?

teaching

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censae A good teacher is a well rounded self-understood individual. The gathering of information and imparting it to others is not teaching as is frequently taught. A good teacher is grounded in their own positive self-worth. They can appreciate the values and worth...

14 Jul 09

lita_nurse @lita_nurse (440) • United States 6 Jun 09

I don't find one career that interest me ? I liked a lot of things.. like writing , social working , painting , designing , etc..doesn't feel like there is on that fits.. I have different interests ...it's there something wrong...

career

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censae Lita, an educated mind is an inqusitive mind. Exploration is the process and the outcome of great things. Enjoy those things that you like. It is your right. Share them with others if you can. Education or expertise in a particular subject tends to make you...

7 Jul 09

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 26 May 09

How do you react when your unmarried teenage daughter suddenly break the news to you that she is pregnant? Can you accept it? Do you pacify her and say it is okay, it happen all the time or yell at her for being a stupid fool and...

teenage pregnancy

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censae When you hear news like this it is very shocking. Know that this first response is about you. You begin to claim the problem. Sometimes, if you don't snap out of it in a timely fashion, more disaster will ensue. The teen will begin to make decisions based on...

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censae @censae (72) • United States 14 May 09

I am so fed up with the quality of public education. I am referring to the academic as well as the human quality. Trained teachers are a rareity. I wonder what they were trained. It certainly was not to consider children as human...

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kishuchi @kishuchi (71) • India 26 Mar 09

Ever since I can recall I have seen my parents fighting on all issues.My mother is of dominating nature.There were problems in her family beacuse her father's business was closed.She had to study and take tutions 4 her family.Then...

parents

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30 Mar 09

kishuchi @kishuchi (71) • India 26 Mar 09

Ever since I can recall I have seen my parents fighting on all issues.My mother is of dominating nature.There were problems in her family beacuse her father's business was closed.She had to study and take tutions 4 her family.Then...

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censae Mind your own business is the best position at this point. If it is safe, offer your opinion about what is going on. Your parents know full well how to take care of the dynamics of this relationship. They seem to have been doing what they do a long time. There...

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indian_girl @indian_girl (62) • United States 13 Mar 09

How do you convince a man who loves you that you love him just as much and that there is no other man that could take you away? How do you let him know that he doesn't need worry about outsiders interfering with my love for him?

jealousy

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censae There is no way for you to do this. Clearly it is something for him to find a solution for. It is probably not your love that he does not trust. It may be his own feelings of worthiness, fear and ego that may be at issue.Gently, explore his past experiences...

30 Mar 09

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