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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker1 year ago

First of all, I am in no way intentionally trying to insult people who are gay. In fact I have lots of gay friends.

But, have you guys ever noticed that there's an alarmingly increasing number of gay people now-a-days? Out of 10guys I see around, I see almost more than half who are gay. It was even funny one time, I was taking a walk in the park and saw a man and a woman walking towards me, normal intuition tells me that the man was courting the woman (because they weren't holding hands but were close), upon passing me, I quickly laughed at myself because it wasn't actually a man courting a girl, it was two good friends.

At one of our conversations with my dad, I actually inquired about this and upon analyzing things, my dad told me that fathers (who are his friends) don't really give much responsibility nor obligation to their gay sons. I mean, they're not expecting them to become somebody someday, and unlike the men who are mostly entrusted with heavy expectations, the gays weren't given much expectation. So, we therefore partially concluded, that maybe men do become gay because they feared the stress of expectations from their family (not that I am saying gay people aren't responsible enough) but that's how I see it, that men prefer to be gay to get out of the expectation of parents.

What do you think?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 53/100. Greyback (429)   ranked 2,855 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 74/100. JoMarch (2207)   ranked 522 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

wowoowo the ignorance in these last two posts just abunds

you know gays who went back to being MEN??? and please say, what were they when they were gays? ducks? dogs? trees? sorry to break it to you but gays stay men just like us lez stay women! not to mention that those you speak of are just delusionals who will end up in some mental institution or killing themsleves sooner or later cos you cant go back hetero...you convince yourself to make others happy but you are not happy and you will end up bad if you dont follow your nature...

god just go out there and look at nature will ya? its full of animals practicising homosexuality but you still go around saying its a choice...yeah whatever


myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

hi cyntrow..read response #4 and tell me what I am not understanding here. am I being blonde again?


myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Sid, I don't get it either.


myLot reputation of 48/100. prinzess1515 (1006)   ranked 3,504 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Laydee where on earth are you getting your "facts" from?

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2. myLot reputation of 67/100. wreckfish (234)   ranked 771 out of 3,931 in thinker   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 67/100. wreckfish (234)   ranked 771 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

nice rhyme there:D


myLot reputation of 53/100. Greyback (429)   ranked 2,855 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Even I agree with the attraction/action line!
I even surprise me sometimes.


myLot reputation of 82/100. sirensanssmile (2784)   ranked 2,723 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 82/100. sirensanssmile (2784)   ranked 2,723 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Well you can't generalize as well since your sample size is only those who are your friend, can you?

Yes, I know of a lot since I've encountered a lot of them. They end up somewhere in another country just looking for their own lives since their families can't trust them to keep the family business in tact with all their lifestyles. But they're not banished or something, they were just given the chance to live their life as they want it to be. Unlike the other sons who were given the responsibility to take care of their businesses.

When you do discussions, do not feel strangled if a person isn't agreeing to what you're saying. There's no debate here, we're just sharing our thoughts, and if my thoughts aren't how you perceived them to be, then don't push it, just explain your side and keep your steam on yourself. No accusations and name calling please, I never questioned your manhood, I just thought you were a fairy. rasp


myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Laydee and all others...just read the above response. you called me out for calling you ignorant and yet I never once called anyone ignorant. In fact you singled me and 2 others out on this discussion. hmmm...now read your response to this gentleman...yup...read it all the way to the very end. you got it.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. cobrateacher (4179)   ranked 4 out of 3,931 in thinker   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Thank you cobrateacher for having the decency to go through the pains of enlightening me about this type of information. Indeed perceptions of what's 'different' hasn't been cleared most of the times because people would go flaring up at the sight of topics such as these instead of sitting down and calmly explaining things like you did.

I truly appreciate your efforts.

Thank you and happy mylotting! happy

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. ravinskye (6062)   ranked 1,957 out of 3,931 in thinker   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 67/100. wreckfish (234)   ranked 771 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

well i was going for restrained sarcasm as an alternative to heterophobia:D


myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Nah, yelling doesn't help. It's what I've seen and have discussed with most of my friends. I'm just opening the topic for the sake of earnings. lol

So whoever gets flared up just lost because I didn't expect to be treated so kindly either. Not to mention that I'm not breaking any mylot rules by being curious how people would think. Right?

lol


myLot reputation of 92/100. MsTickle (8848)   ranked 7 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

The whole deal with a discussion forum is to ask questions and be curious and to share knowledge and ideas. Folk won't always agree with one another...some will be right and others wrong. There is no need for any aggression, or abuse, nastiness or ridicule.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

you seriously just opened this obviously controversial topic just for the sake of earnings? hmmm...you are revealing more and more about yourself than anything.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

I for one am all done in helping you to earn here.


myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

You really seem to have some serious issues going on there....maybe I just am not understanding you correctly. we are not connecting here at all.


myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

The whole deal with a discussion forum is to ask questions and be curious and to share knowledge and ideas. Folk won't always agree with one another...some will be right and others wrong. There is no need for any aggression, or abuse, nastiness or ridicule.

So true ms tickle.

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myLot reputation of 83/100. jend80 (1555)   ranked 3,821 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

you do know that straight men and woman have an*l s*x too?


myLot reputation of 92/100. SueD823 (164)   ranked 3,149 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 92/100. poormomof4 (466)   ranked 3,148 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Why are you so full of hate?
Why so much hostility and bad language?
Do you even love your son?
Let go of the hate and your life will be much better/


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myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 78/100. soooobored (665)   ranked 20 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Yeah, that's pretty much what I said.


myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7316)   ranked 586 out of 3,931 in thinker   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 74/100. JoMarch (2207)   ranked 522 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

lmao start worrying when all those scary motorcycle and truck drivers lesbians will start to get over the world...pollution will be a real issue then! please get a brain if you want to discuss certain topics, will ya?


myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7316)   ranked 586 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3927)   ranked 55 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Let me remind you JoMarch that you are here in my discussion. You weren't forced to read nor comment, so I'd suggest you let people be with their ideas.

What? Your afraid your brain might just need a little bit of growing for once? Keep the discussion with an open mind and maturity, we're here to discuss and not cuss because other people don't think like you do.

Thank you rsa101 for your thoughts.


myLot reputation of 74/100. JoMarch (2207)   ranked 522 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

sorry but here the only narrow minded is YOU homophobe! I am open minded but i get f*cking HURT by reading your ignorant remarks! you open wounds with your stupid ignorance so sorry if i feel compelled to educate you, though you just seem to not want to get it


myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10499)   ranked 136 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

hugs Jomarch! it is a discussion that she opened up for the earnings as she admitted. She gets very upset and accuses people that don't agree with her thinking of "cussing" & being "closed-minded". Don't let it get you. I know it hurts but take comfort in knowing that most are scratching our heads asking,"what planet did this person just fall down from?"


myLot reputation of 74/100. JoMarch (2207)   ranked 522 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Thank you Sid! yeah i just noticed...how sick a person...gosh...


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myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 1,320 out of 3,931 in thinker  1 year ago

Drag queens are still men. But that's neither here nor there. Your statement essentially implied that only straight men are men. Just because a man is attracted to other men, it does not make him lesser of a man.

 
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