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myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)8 months ago

I wonder what ppl would think of a certain situation. Here’s the situation…you have a couple we’ll name Jill and John. Jill calls up her friend, Marie, and asks her to come to her house, 30 miles away and help her do some work for the day. Marie agrees but Jill will need to send someone to pick her up and bring her back home. John is elected. When John picks up Marie he stops at the gas station saying he needs gas and asks Marie for $5.00. Marie gives it to him and they’re on their way. After several hours of work Jill pays Marie $10.00 and John leaves to take Marie home. On the way he stops at a gas station for a soda and mentions he needs more money for gas. Marie gives him another $5.00 and goes home. When Marie’s b/f asks what she did for the day she tells him. He looks at her strangely and asks if she has the $10.00 Jill paid her…Marie pulls it out and says yes. Then he asks if she didn’t already have $10.00 before leaving…Marie says yes but she spent it on gas. It takes a while for him to explain to Marie that she actually worked for free. That Jill or John should have paid for the gas since they were the ones asking her to come to their house. When Marie calls Jill about it, Jill laughs and says she wondered when Marie would catch on.

Does this make Marie a stupid person? Would you have caught on immediately? What would you think of someone that does this numerous times?

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1. myLot reputation of 76/100. wonttakelong (1601)   8 months ago

judging by your description of the event i would say that Jill and John set out to intentionally take advantage of Marie
they dont sound like they are very good friends to marie
Marie should seriously reevaluate her relationship with those two
If i were Marie I would be giving them both a piece of my mind and then cutting all ties with them


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

Does that make Marie a simpleton or just plain dumb? Why is it obvious to some ppl and not to others? I think Marie needs to pay close attention to things when she's around Jill:)

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myLot reputation of 76/100. wonttakelong (1601)  8 months ago

it doesnt make Marie either
it makes Marie a very trusting person who doesnt want to beleive that her "friends" would take advantage of her

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. onlydia (1609)   8 months ago

It makes her a very caring friend and doesn't think before she does things for her friends and she should now stop doing them for them as they are using her and maybe making fun of her and not meaning to hurt her feelings but just mite.


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

I think she needs to be much more careful when it comes to making decisions.

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myLot reputation of 98/100. onlydia (1609)  8 months ago

I think that you make good one's and your a loving and caring person. I know the feeling so hang in there my friend. And smile with me as not thinking a day to day thing with me. I'm getting better at saying no. But sometimes not so good. Your friend onlydia

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3. myLot reputation of 56/100. dnatureofdtrain (3944)   8 months ago

I think it would be frustrating in Marie's Shoes. But I also believe if a person can afford it they should pay for the gas, and she did not work for free. She got paid, and then paid John for Gas to get their and back.. it's frustrating but if I were Marie and needed to do it for the money, I would explain well it costs 10$ in gas to come and go, or Marie just needs to arrange her own transportation to and from there.. If Marie is aware it cost 10$ and she is aware of John charging 10$ for gas and does not raise the price...in earnings. Then I'd of course if the money was really needed or I did not like the work I'd wander off elsewhere to work. - DNatureofDTrain


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

Actually, Marie did it b/c she was asked and she thought she was doing a nice thing. I guess it was a lesson learned.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. Lakota12 (16719)   8 months ago

They are cheatas if they cheat a friend like that just what would they do to someone else.
and SOunds like one of my neices.
She wants to charge her other aunt to take her to the store or the DOcotr.
and thats not right you help family and friends and ya dont charge them for it!

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. leenie50 (1771)   8 months ago

twoey,
I hope this a joke because if not, Marie has some serious screws loose. And if she does this several times, then I think this Jill person is cruel and taking unbelievable advantage of this pooe woman. Please tell me this story is fabricated!! Hugsss
leenie


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

Actually, this story about Marie and the other discussion about Marie are both absolutely true. Not only that but........I am Marie blush, Jill is my Mom and John is my stepdad whistle. I simply wanted ppl's honest outlooks on the situation...I do agree that Marie (I) need to be more careful when I make decisions.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. dragon54u (9382)   8 months ago

I think Jill and John should have their butts kicked. Marie is very naive and doesn't use her head and they are taking advantage of her.


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

Actually I am Marie...I simply wanted to find out if ppl thought it was stupidity, ignorance, being naive or just too trusting. Jill and John are my Mom and stepdad so I don't see them getting their butts kicked but I do think I need to be careful making decisions.

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myLot reputation of 98/100. dragon54u (9382)  8 months ago

LOL! Here, help me get my foot out of my mouth.... lol

Stay away from those people or at least don't have any financial dealings with them. Once I get my foot out of my mouth, I'd love to plant it on their butts.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. jillmalitz (3896)   8 months ago

I just hope that Marie would catch on. The ten dollars she "earned" was lost on "gas". I am surprised she did not catch on sooner. Dumb.


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

For some reason, I don't catch it. Perhaps it's the way she says it or the tone she uses, but it sounds perfectly normal when she's telling you. BTW, I am Marie:)...

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myLot reputation of 97/100. jillmalitz (3896)  8 months ago

Interesting... I just don't understand the bit about $5 for gas. Why not fill the take. If a person gets paid $10 but has to pay $10 for travel that means to me 0 payment???Nothing personal, it just seems strange, but what do I know?

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8. myLot reputation of 67/100. catarina_rg (236)   8 months ago

did this really happen or are you supposing?

well, i would say that if i called up a friend, or was called up by a friend, i would not expect to be paid...

however if that was the arragement i would have picked up on it... i wouldn't say anything though, if they were my friends i would be embarassed to ask them for money...

i do feel it's very wrong to do such a thing to a friend, unless they were simply messing with her, which i doubt since they are not close enough for asking favours without monetary reward...

anyway, Marie is not stupid, believing in people is a wonderful quality, which can be harmful, but it is, nevertheless enviable. there is way too much mistrust nowadays!


reshmigraj (1)  8 months ago

I don't think Marie is a stupid person. She gives much importance to her friendship. After all it is not a stupid thing to help a friend while he is in need. She is an owner of a good character thats why though she came to know they had fooled her didnt respond, may be just because she doesnt want to break the friendship


myLot reputation of 95/100. twoey68 (9610)  8 months ago

No, this story and the other about Marie are true and I am actually Marie. I wanted to find out ppl's thoughts on the situation. I do agree that trusting ppl is great but I do think that I need to be more careful.

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myLot reputation of 67/100. catarina_rg (236)  8 months ago

maybe you should be a litle more careful, but remebe it's better t trust and be dissapointed once in a while then to never trust and never love.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. scififan43 (840)   8 months ago


This stuff just is not rigt! it is a con game on the other person part. jsut trying get something for free.

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12451)   8 months ago

Hi twoey68,



poor Marie, she is rather stupid, I wouldn't do that, I'd tell them to go have a run and jump, if John asked me for petrol money I would flatley refuse, I don't think it was nice for a friend to play a trick on their friend like that or were they hoping she wou't catch on?


Tamara

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