@basicblack001 on myLot

nympha687 @nympha687 (940) • United States 27 Apr 09

Let's admit it. Most of us judge the people we want to talk to or be with according to their physical features. I often look at the person's eyes. I could gauge if he is interesting and knowledgeable. What about you? What's...

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basicblack001 What you say is true. I have never heard of anybody "yet" who says "love at first attitude/character".... (LOL!!!) What I usually see is the person's face then next is the body (the way they walk and present themselves). This is especially important in my...

28 Apr 09

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 27 Apr 09

So,are you willing to go back school and study for another 2 or three years there if we got the chance,do you still feel that you need to study more in college? Personally,I am willing to go back to college and learn more things...

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basicblack001 There is no such thing as "too old to study", so if we have the freedom to have additional learning skills, may it be in secondary school, college, PhD, masteral, short courses, as long as it is one of your interest ... why not? Time is gold so we have to do...

27 Apr 09

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kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5475) • Canada 27 Apr 09

I don't know what just inspired me to start this topic, but I just saw one that was talking about being normal, and I had a brainstorm. Growing up, I didn't have it easy. I was both physically and verbally abused. I was locked...

irrational fears

panic attacks in children

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basicblack001 I believe whatever it is we experienced in our childhood made us who we are today. It just depends on how we handle those experiences. Being bullied at school may make us bullies ourselves or may make us strong both inside and outside. Going to school hungry...

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achinthya @achinthya (1216) • India 27 Apr 09

I have seen a guys who does not do a bit work at home everything has to be done either my mother or sisters or wife, they say their work is to go out and bring money to feed the family so they don't required to work at home. What...

housework

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basicblack001 Men bringing home the bacon and women producing babies and laboring on household chores are already ancient practice that ought to be put down the drain. I believe that a man and a woman should help each other in doing the household chores. There should never...

27 Apr 09

wondericequeen @wondericequeen (7876) • Hong Kong 28 Feb 09

I will be going to the supermarket in a bit to grab some breakfast for the week ahead! I wonder if you walk down every aisle slowly browsing around, or you are just like me - grab and go? Which aisle is most interesting to you?...

supermarket

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basicblack001 When I make a trip to the supermarket, I tend to go from aisle to aisle even though I have a list on hand. This makes me aware of the newly endorsed products, etc. There are times that I just really "grab and go", BUT whenever time allows it ... I browse...

1 Mar 09

chinna533 @chinna533 (309) • India 27 Oct 08

I do my Christmas shopping all year long.I am a frugal shopper so I shop hesitatingly.I love clearance sales at the end of the season.I have a lot of people to shop for.We have our shopping finished but we are just now beginning...

clearance

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basicblack001 Hi there.... I do admire you both for doing your Christmas shopping so early. I do really mean to do that for years now, but haven't got the veracity to do it right after the holidays. I have also tried shopping the whole year round, but my main problem is, I...

27 Oct 08

deeville @deeville (3) • Jamaica 20 Oct 08

My husband and I have a great relationship. We've been married for almost 7 years. I would'nt say we're joined at the hip but we do like each others' company and try to be together as often as possible. Of course there's work, we...

marriage

wife

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basicblack001 I am not yet married so I am not an expert when it comes to this thing, but I do believe that great marriages DO EXIST. A good example is my parents... they have been married for 36 years now and still do the dishes together while singing their favorite song....

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gracemanotoc @gracemanotoc (641) • Japan 19 Oct 08

I feel that sometimes my parents are too controlling even if I'm already in the age of maturity. They have a lot of warnings and reminders that makes me feel they don't trust that I can manage my life pretty well and that I can do...

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basicblack001 I cannot say with conviction that parents are "always" right, but there are times that "we" are so focused on our goal/want, we resemble a horse with covers on the sides of its eyes, we do not see the sides of the road. Parents are not there to "dictate or to...

20 Oct 08

dio123 @dio123 (1788) • India 20 Oct 08

Do you prefer to have tattoos on your body, I have seen many peoples like to make tattoos on their biceps, belly, on backside and even on neck and sometimes on private places also, Do you like tattoos? if yes what types of tattoos...

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basicblack001 I have wanted for quite some time to have a small butterfly or a tribal tattoo on my ankle, but I have second thoughts about getting one because of the repercussions it may have in my line of work. Anyway, I found a solution to it when HENNA tattoo came...

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gracemanotoc @gracemanotoc (641) • Japan 19 Oct 08

I have many friends that complains about their marriage and their wives or husbands and that they have limited time for themselves. I feel that they are fully happy being married. So I feel that maybe being single is always good....

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basicblack001 I am still single and is about to get married this year. I have thought back then that being single is the BEST (I still do -- LOL!!!), but then... I fell in love and there is this certain yearning to be with that someone... so after months of deliberation I...

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basicblack001 @basicblack001 (43) • Philippines 25 Aug 08

Hi guys,I have acquired a condo unit that was just turned over to me last July, but still paying at the moment. My fiance, however, without any knowledge of the condo unit I owned asked me to marry him. Is it okay for my fiance...

marriage

ownership

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basicblack001 Thank you for your great advise Sudalunts. My question may be a simple one, but nevertheless will become a problem if a person doesn't understand the "law". As we all know, "ignorance of the law excuses no one". Your advise had opened my eyes regarding the...

28 Aug 08

ajrox1810 @ajrox1810 (992) • India 25 Aug 08

Just to be cool or to say something. I have seen a lot of guys wearing nice and funny one-liner T-Shirts like "Genius is my genes" or "Stop Thinking, Start Drinking" and a lot others like "Stop War, Bring Peace". Why do people...

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basicblack001 Hi ajrox... it's really kind of funny and cool at the same time when you see people especially the older folks wearing these one-liner shirts. Personally, I think this is maybe their way of making a statement. This is what we usually do when we can't say or...

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basicblack001 @basicblack001 (43) • Philippines 25 Aug 08

Hi guys,I have acquired a condo unit that was just turned over to me last July, but still paying at the moment. My fiance, however, without any knowledge of the condo unit I owned asked me to marry him. Is it okay for my fiance...

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hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 25 Aug 08

U know what? My major is medical science. I will become a doctor. However, all these years I have been scared of hospital. I am scared of facing death. As an intern, I surffer when the patients surffer. Tomorrow, I will...

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basicblack001 Good day hiddenwing!!! First of all, I am really proud of you for pursuing a profession that is not a joke. I am a physical therapist by profession (my pre-med) and if my finances would allow it, I would enroll next semester for my "proper" year, then...

25 Aug 08

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kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 22 Aug 08

hi ladies, when u plan to marry would you rather own your bridal gown or would you rather have it rented? for practicality... LOL. i know the wedding day is the day that most girls dreamed of. me too i want my wedding day to...

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basicblack001 Hello there princess, since I am getting married soon too, I've decided to have my own bridal gown tailored for me and have the gowns of my secondary sponsors rented out (I've consulted them of course and they said that it's okay since they have a lot of gowns...

23 Aug 08

basicblack001 @basicblack001 (43) • Philippines 23 Aug 08

Hello everyone,I have a cousin who had been by my side through thick and thin and I am really extremely grateful for that. I am an only child and having a "big brother" is really endearing. Aside from, he is really fun to be with....

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basicblack001 Thank you so much dementia ... that's a huge load from my back. I know that this is just a simple problem, but saying goodbye to somebody who had been by your side for years is not easy especially now that he is on the "lowest point" of his life, but as you...

23 Aug 08

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 23 Aug 08

I prefer own conveyance for short journey and public conveyance for long journey.... What about you.....????? Thanku Ganesh

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basicblack001 I love to travel and I love to stop and take a photo of whatever catches my eye. I just couldn't help it! So, I guess, as long as the trip is not crossing the sea or flying, I need to have my own service. Besides, I have a friend who has the same hobby as mine...

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basicblack001 @basicblack001 (43) • Philippines 23 Aug 08

Hello everyone,I have a cousin who had been by my side through thick and thin and I am really extremely grateful for that. I am an only child and having a "big brother" is really endearing. Aside from, he is really fun to be with....

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jeanniemay @jeanniemay (1798) • Philippines 13 Apr 08

Haha! I was just wondering if you have any. I for one doesn't see any regret and any disadvantage coming to mylot. Well, it's nice to know if we got some bad experiences so we can at least caution the others...

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basicblack001 The only deepest regret I have in joining mylot is not having enough time to create or respond to discussions that really interest me since I have an extremely busy schedule. I just wish I could squeeze mylot more into my sched....

14 Apr 08

Modestah @Modestah (11177) • United States 24 Feb 08

well, everyone always asks the question - do you wash your hands after using the privy - my question is a little different.... do you wash your hands PRIOR to using the privy. I do - whenever I use a public restroom -...

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basicblack001 Well, well, well .. just like everyone else, I've never thought of washing my hands before using a public comfort room. Besides, I always have my wet tissue pack in my hand bag to wipe my private parts, so basically, I never let my bare hands touch any of my...

9 Mar 08

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