I find it hard to believe that it has been two years since my older brother passed away.

@TheHorse (227736)
Walnut Creek, California
June 15, 2025 11:33am CST
George would be 79 if he were alive today. He was.a major influence in my life. Because he was "older," I looked up to him. His musical tastes were a powerful force in shaping my musical tastes. He introduced me to the music of John Prine, Jesse Winchester, The Band, and Mason Proffit. He was an Army paratrooper who served in Vietnam. He was on, and survived, what came to be known as "Hamburger Hill." He came home with a Purple Heart, but, happily, no "monkey on his back." He taught creative writing upon his return to the US. I suppose there is some irony in the fact that the anniversary of his death coincides with the "military parade" that occurred yesterday. He was exposed to Agent Orange in Vietnam, and that led to health issues later in his life, and ultimately his death. I spent a Summer with him and his girlfriend in Galena Illinois in the late 1970s. He and I build a stone wall behind his girlfriend's Summer house there. It was slow and meticulous work, and really satisfying. A metaphor for how I have tried to live my life, I suppose. More recently, he and his former housemate, Ed Holstein, would take me out to dinner when I visited Chicago. Ed is the former Earl of Old Town bartender who wrote "Jazzman," a song that appeared on the flipside of a Pure Prairie League album called (I think) "Bustin' Out." That album featured "Amie," a song that got some radio play here in the US. I bet @FourWalls has heard it. A band I'm in actually covers it. Listening to sacred music makes me wax sentimental. It is Sunday, and I do not have to work today. I will head to the pool later In the day.
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@wolfgirl569 (117764)
• Marion, Ohio
15 Jun
Sorry about your brother. He left you lots of good memories.
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@vandana7 (101973)
• India
16 Jun
And childish nature.
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
To quote the monkey in Lion King, "He lives in (me)."
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
@vandana7 I think those who have seen difficult things sometimes want to enjoy simple childish things.
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@GardenGerty (164235)
• United States
16 Jun
I think he influenced you in a lot of ways. He sounds like a really good man.
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
He was a good man.
@vandana7 (101973)
• India
16 Jun
No wonder you are childish. People who have older siblings tend to remain in that childish mode almost forever! Must have indulged you quite a bit. Though it is kinda surprising that there was so much age gap between you two.
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@vandana7 (101973)
• India
16 Jun
@TheHorse I see! We hardly come across step mothers and step children in our world. So it didn't strike me. Did your step mom treat you well? Don't answer if it is too personal.
@Juliaacv (53798)
• Canada
15 Jun
I am sorry that your big brother has passed, but I truly admire your respect and continued nod to all that he did and taught you. That is more than any words can say, he must have been a remarkable person.
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jun
He was a good man.
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@rakski (139720)
• Philippines
16 Jun
George sounds like a remarkable man, brave, wise, and deeply influential. His legacy clearly lives on in you.
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@rakski (139720)
• Philippines
16 Jun
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Jun
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
That it does.
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@RasmaSandra (86093)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun
Good that you have the memories, I hope you enjoyed your pool time today,
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
The exercise was good.
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@celticeagle (175868)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Jun
Sorry to hear of his passing and the reason. He sounds like quite a character. You must have gotten that from being around him so much. Hehe.
@kaylachan (78194)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun
Time really does fly, doesn't it? Sunds like he had a good life.
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jun
He made the best of things.
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@kaylachan (78194)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun
@TheHorse Sounds like it.
@DaddyEvil (151039)
• United States
15 Jun
I'm sorry your brother is gone... And sorry so much stuff trump is doing is so prominent in all our minds. I had two brothers in Vietnam but they never wanted to talk about their time in service. We learned not to mention anything about the war. I didn't spend much time with either one of them. (The younger one of those two brothers is still alive but spends most of his time in the hospital. He doesn't like anyone going to visit him there.) I only have one other brother left... The one that helps Pretty and I when we need to ask for help. He lives a few blocks away from us here in our city. I hope you're enjoying your day, pony.
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jun
I did not discuss Vietnam with George. But he knew I admired him for his service.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
16 Jun
May he rest in peace
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
He was a good man.
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@JudyEv (356305)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jun
It's good to know he didn't come home with mental issues. That's a lovely photo of him.
@LindaOHio (191504)
• United States
16 Jun
I'm so sorry for your loss. That's a great picture.
@porwest (101229)
• United States
16 Jun
At least you have some great memories. In life, sometimes that's worth more than anything. Onward and upward.
@MarieCoyle (45078)
16 Jun
I'm sorry, he sounds like a truly special brother and I am sure you still miss him. I know I still miss my sister so much, and it's been a long time now. I am glad you can take comfort in your memories of his music.
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@TheHorse (227736)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun
Thanks, Marie. I celebrate his memory every time I perform a teach a song he turned me on to.
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@MarieCoyle (45078)
16 Jun
@TheHorse To remember him with your music teachings is an honor, I am glad you do that.