9/9/25 - Meals

Are you sure you don’t want to hire someone from a reputable service? She’s so rude. Yesterday I ate too little to mention because nothing stayed down.

Not at all. Fire her. It's that simple. For dinner I made baked chicken thighs with a red sauce pasta and buttered kernel corn on the side. Good eats.

I guess you are going to have to decide whether or not you want to put up with her behavior.

No, you are not at all overreacting, cousin #3 is not only unreliable, but also extremely rude.

I think cousin #3 is rude, unreliable and certainly thinks you will put up with her behavior since she obviously thinks you need her, Last night we had pork tenderloin, mashed potatoes and carrots.

Anything can be out of expectations.If your cousin deserves it all .then mayn't be over reacting in my opinion.I don't know how it reaches you I Had chicken majestics only for lunch and some fruit salad with ice cream spread for dinner

I can’t even remember what we had for breakfast yesterday. For lunch and dinner, we just had rice with fried chicken and mushroom soup. We don’t really have snacks, since eating rice three times a day already makes us feel full. That’s why I can last the whole day without snacking.

Usual for lunch, I had a Boca burger with cheese and hash browns with Ranch Dressing Mix (not the actual dressing, but the mix you use to make it) for dinner. Mixed berry sorbet, banana, fiber, yogurt!

Yesterday was frozen pizza. Today I am making Tacos.

You need to find someone you can depend on... Cousin #3 isn't it. Call the local department on aging and ask them to help you find someone you can depend on. I know I ate chicken taquitos yesterday (I washed the plate I microwaved those on this morning.) and I'm sure I ate a sausage, egg and cheese croissant for supper late last night. (The package for it was in the kitchen trash this morning.) Unless something happens while I'm eating, I often can't remember what I ate... My meals are the same things a lot of the time.

Your cousin needs to be straight with you on what she will do and what she won't do. Yesterday was our day to host our friend. We had supper at an Irish pub- fried shrimp for me. Hubby wanted pretzels and cheese. Friend had a taco salad and our other friend had corned beef egg rolls.

I'd be trying to replace her with someone more reliable.

I agree with what everyone else said... Wish I knew more to say...

Cousin #3 may well have a problem with something right now, but that hardly calls for how rude she has been to you. You are going to have to find someone when cousin #2 moves away soon, maybe you can start looking now. Ideally you can find someone who will cook you some meals every week, even if she will have to freeze some for you, and then take you to where you need to go. You don't want to find yourself with no one at all, that would not be good.

Would your insurance pay for someone to help you.

It sounds like she is not interested in helping out any longer. I would suggest talking to her and asking how she feels and then find another person to help you out.

I hope that cousin gets in touch with you, You need to know what is going on, More ham and cheese on hard role with salad olives and some Italiian dressing,l Froze the rest of the hame to move on to other choices, Ice cream sandwish and have to eat up those Berliners,