I keep cutting the price.

@AmbiePam (104938)
United States
October 27, 2025 3:07pm CST
I had no idea how selfish I was. I keep selling things, but my friend will say things like, this person is struggling, and I’ll cut the price of what I’m selling. And then I’ll kind of be like, darn, I wish I didn’t feel compelled to give such a discount (like one lady is getting a great deal on shoes because her puppy ruined all her shoes). I don’t like that I feel like that! I’m more selfish than I realized! Do you ever surprise yourself in a bad way?
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21 responses
@MarieCoyle (50068)
15h
Your heart is as big as the sky. You are not selfish!!
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@1creekgirl (44169)
• United States
13h
Ditto!
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@Nevena83 (65992)
• Serbia
16h
I don't think I'm selfish.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
16h
I doubt you are!
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@Nevena83 (65992)
• Serbia
16h
@AmbiePam I'm not, but I wish I was, because I think my life would be better.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
16h
@Nevena83 I find that people who are parents are good at putting themselves last.
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@GardenGerty (166166)
• United States
12h
Amber I am sure your prices you ask are very reasonable. I feel like it is unfair for your friend to guilt trip you into cutting what you ask down. I have seen when you have been struggling yourself. That is probably why it is so easy for someone to tell you a sad story.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
12h
I do identify when I hear someone is having a hard time.
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• Shenzhen, China
11h
I think don't have to give discount due to other's word,so long as you feel the price is reasonable,you can keep price unchanged.
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@1creekgirl (44169)
• United States
13h
Amber, you are the least selfish person I know.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
13h
I appreciate that so much, Vicki.
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@NJChicaa (125091)
• United States
16h
You're not selfish at all Amber. You are too big-hearted IMO
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
16h
Thank you for saying that. It makes me feel better.
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• Rupert, Idaho
16h
I don't think you are....because you still are giving the discount. But that is just seeing things from my side. I am sure I am selfish in ways.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
16h
I imagine you’re a very unselfish mama.
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• Rupert, Idaho
16h
@AmbiePam Well I've always liked to put myself last...but I am sure in some way I am selfish lol
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@snowy22315 (197963)
• United States
15h
You can't save everybody. Cut yourself a break I am aware I am more self centered than most. I try to notice and make amends when I can
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@Tampa_girl7 (53647)
• United States
13h
Selfish you could never be.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
12h
I appreciate that.
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@wolfgirl569 (124187)
• Marion, Ohio
15h
I don't think you are.
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@RasmaSandra (90278)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15h
I would always got out of my way to accomodate people,
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
15h
It pretty much becomes habit.
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@noni1959 (10924)
• United States
10h
You have a heart and care. That doesn't make you selfish. Your friend is taking advantage of your heart.
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@JudyEv (364945)
• Rockingham, Australia
12h
You're not selfish because you don't actually stick to your first price! lol No way are you selfish.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
12h
Thank you, Judy.
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@Dena91 (17033)
• United States
12h
I do not think that you are selfish at all. I think others try to take advantage of people saying things to try and get something for nothing. It's your stuff to sell for what price you choose. Either they can pay it or not.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
12h
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• Shenzhen, China
11h
don't have to feel guity about bad side of personality,Sometimes i also found i am selfish,lol,but it does't matter,at least,i can keep it within control.
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@jstory07 (146247)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6h
You are not selfish you just care about others so you gave them a good price.
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@LadyDuck (485923)
• Italy
2h
I am sure that you are not at all selfish Amber. The simple fact that you feel concerned proves how big your heart is.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
2h
Thank you, Anna.
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@sallypup (66497)
• Centralia, Washington
16h
I doubt you are selfish.
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@LindaOHio (204592)
• United States
Just now
You are not selfish.
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• United States
16h
I understand that feeling. Mine is pride sometimes
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Just now
Once during the outbreak of Covid, I'd helped parents by giving them money as I felt a very strong urge to help them. They had come with the plea that they were unable to pay the fees. I later felt I shouldn't have. They never returned the money.
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@AmbiePam (104938)
• United States
Just now
I am very sorry that happened to you.
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