I keep cutting the price.

@AmbiePam (108092)
United States
October 27, 2025 3:07pm CST
I had no idea how selfish I was. I keep selling things, but my friend will say things like, this person is struggling, and I’ll cut the price of what I’m selling. And then I’ll kind of be like, darn, I wish I didn’t feel compelled to give such a discount (like one lady is getting a great deal on shoes because her puppy ruined all her shoes). I don’t like that I feel like that! I’m more selfish than I realized! Do you ever surprise yourself in a bad way?
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@MarieCoyle (52237)
27 Oct
Your heart is as big as the sky. You are not selfish!!
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@1creekgirl (44257)
• United States
28 Oct
Ditto!
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@Nevena83 (66066)
• Serbia
27 Oct
I don't think I'm selfish.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
27 Oct
I doubt you are!
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@Nevena83 (66066)
• Serbia
27 Oct
@AmbiePam I'm not, but I wish I was, because I think my life would be better.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
27 Oct
@Nevena83 I find that people who are parents are good at putting themselves last.
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@GardenGerty (166764)
• United States
28 Oct
Amber I am sure your prices you ask are very reasonable. I feel like it is unfair for your friend to guilt trip you into cutting what you ask down. I have seen when you have been struggling yourself. That is probably why it is so easy for someone to tell you a sad story.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
I do identify when I hear someone is having a hard time.
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• Shenzhen, China
28 Oct
I think don't have to give discount due to other's word,so long as you feel the price is reasonable,you can keep price unchanged.
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@GardenGerty (166764)
• United States
28 Oct
@AmbiePam I do too.
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@1creekgirl (44257)
• United States
28 Oct
Amber, you are the least selfish person I know.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
I appreciate that so much, Vicki.
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@NJChicaa (125595)
• United States
27 Oct
You're not selfish at all Amber. You are too big-hearted IMO
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
27 Oct
Thank you for saying that. It makes me feel better.
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• Rupert, Idaho
27 Oct
I don't think you are....because you still are giving the discount. But that is just seeing things from my side. I am sure I am selfish in ways.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
27 Oct
I imagine you’re a very unselfish mama.
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• Rupert, Idaho
27 Oct
@AmbiePam Well I've always liked to put myself last...but I am sure in some way I am selfish lol
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@snowy22315 (200061)
• United States
27 Oct
You can't save everybody. Cut yourself a break I am aware I am more self centered than most. I try to notice and make amends when I can
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@Tampa_girl7 (53965)
• United States
28 Oct
Selfish you could never be.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
I appreciate that.
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@wolfgirl569 (126464)
• Marion, Ohio
27 Oct
I don't think you are.
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@RasmaSandra (91848)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Oct
I would always got out of my way to accomodate people,
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
27 Oct
It pretty much becomes habit.
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@noni1959 (11519)
• United States
28 Oct
You have a heart and care. That doesn't make you selfish. Your friend is taking advantage of your heart.
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@JudyEv (367342)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Oct
You're not selfish because you don't actually stick to your first price! lol No way are you selfish.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
Thank you, Judy.
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@Dena91 (17030)
• United States
28 Oct
I do not think that you are selfish at all. I think others try to take advantage of people saying things to try and get something for nothing. It's your stuff to sell for what price you choose. Either they can pay it or not.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
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• Shenzhen, China
28 Oct
don't have to feel guity about bad side of personality,Sometimes i also found i am selfish,lol,but it does't matter,at least,i can keep it within control.
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@xstitcher (36991)
• Petaluma, California
28 Oct
You are most definitely not selfish.
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@LadyDuck (488962)
• Italy
28 Oct
I am sure that you are not at all selfish Amber. The simple fact that you feel concerned proves how big your heart is.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
Thank you, Anna.
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@sallypup (67114)
• Centralia, Washington
27 Oct
I doubt you are selfish.
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@Traceyjayne (6724)
• United Kingdom
28 Oct
I don't think you are selfish if you are offering it at a reasonable price.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
Oh, it’s definitely reasonable. I’d tell you, but I’d sound like a sucker.
• United Kingdom
28 Oct
@AmbiePam that probably means that you know you are selling it too cheaply already ! Don't feel that you have to cut the price ...if it's fair, it's fair ...
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@aninditasen (17873)
• Raurkela, India
28 Oct
If you are happy with your discount, I think anybody should have a problem. After selling there's no point in regretting. I am very bad at selling.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
Apparently, so am I. At least the lady I sold to is ecstatic.
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@aninditasen (17873)
• Raurkela, India
29 Oct
@AmbiePam That's nice. Making people happy brings down the grace of God.
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28 Oct
Once during the outbreak of Covid, I'd helped parents by giving them money as I felt a very strong urge to help them. They had come with the plea that they were unable to pay the fees. I later felt I shouldn't have. They never returned the money.
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@AmbiePam (108092)
• United States
28 Oct
I am very sorry that happened to you.
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