I wish people would use Cmas, at least, instead of Xmas..

@dragon54u (31633)
United States
December 22, 2011 8:24am CST
Christmas is the only holiday in which we deliberately deny the reason it exists, abbreviating it with X instead of Christ. Even when we don't say Thanksgiving, we say Turkey Day which at least implies plenty and thankfulness. If people said, "let's throw a birthday party for X" instead of your name and called you that on your special day, wouldn't you feel slighted and insulted? Or if there was a holiday that you really revered would you like it if people belittled it by taking the meaning out of its name? So I ask that even if you don't celebrate Christmas as a holy day that you refer to it as Cmas instead of Xmas, out of respect for the people who do hold it in great respect and reverence. No replies are really necessary, I just wanted to ask this one little thing that would restore respect to a holiday that means so much to so many.
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@Galena (9110)
22 Dec 11
isn't the X something to do with the way that the word Christ was written in Roman Latin lettering? I can't remember the details, but I think the X is considered to be an abreviation of Christ in some way.
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
22 Dec 11
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xmas
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
I have heard that and that made "Xmas" a valid, respectful way to refer to Christmas. But in today's society the X is simply a way to avoid the word Christ and shorten the name for economical reasons (signs, printing tags and cards, etc.). I object to it because the X is not used in the respectful way of old but as a way to commercialize the season. There has been a concerted effort to erase Christ from Christmas so that it can become a season for frenzied spending and conspicuous consumption, not a season of joy and good will.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
Sid, thanks for the reference. I know the X began as a legitimate and respectful part of Christmas but it is no longer used that way. That's my objection--not the X itself, but the lack of sentiment behind it. I am proposing the C instead of X to try to bring back the reason we celebrate Christmas, at least to some people that might adopt it and spread the idea around.
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@GreenMoo (11833)
22 Dec 11
Well said. It only shortens it by 4 letters, so using the full Christmas really wouldn´t hurt anyone.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
Merchants shorten it for signs and tags and less letters mean less money. People shorten it just for convenience. Replacing X with C is an act of respect. You're right, it really wouldn't hurt anyone to do so and would be respectful. Have a very happy Christmas, Green Moo!
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@GreenMoo (11833)
22 Dec 11
And to you too. Peace, joy, and everything that matters.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
23 Dec 11
Agreed. I don't thnk that I ahve ever heard the term "Turkey day" actually said, although I have seen it written down. Isn't Thanksgiving also "Turkey day" therefore. What if you don't eat turkey or meat even. "Happy nut cluster with asparagus sauce Day"!
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
You are so funny! There is a growing number of people that don't eat Turkey on Thanksgiving. "Tofurkey" is a tofu turkey that is selling fairly well here!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
23 Dec 11
Sorry about the typos... lack of sleep.
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
22 Dec 11
Hello my dear dragon. The translation of Christmas in other languages has various connotations. For example the name of Christmas in Greek means exactly "the birth of Christ" (???st???e??a) while in Romanian for example the name is Craciun which comes from the Latin calatio, which meant the assembly of the people by the pagan priests in the first day of every month for the announcement of the holidays in the given month and by extension, the celebration in general, because the most important calatio was that of 1 of January. By the end of the 6th century, the birth of Christ was celebrated on 6th of January, when it holidays throughout the year were used to be announced. As the people recently procrastinated in Dacia (actual land of Romania) and South of Danube (Bulgaria) this announcement seamed close to calatio so they used this term to name it. (Source: Romanian wikipedia; translation by me :) ). Point is, it is named differently in different cultures, and I think you are letting yourself get too affected by the "X-mas term of the word". Here in Romania, X-mas is sometimes used instead of Christmas but not because the people using it do not believe in the religious meaning of the holiday, just because for them it "sounds better" - you know how youngsters are - they love slang.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
I wondered what that was in parentheses but assumed it represented Greek and you could not think of the letters! You're right, it is different in different countries and the X used to mean something but what I'm objecting to is that it is now used as a convenience and to make the day generic--so that they can sell more merchandise. Thank you for bringing some very interesting information to this discussion! I hope you have a wonderful, happy Christmas!
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
22 Dec 11
the exact name would be "Hristougenna" in Greek language, where "Hristou" comes from Hristos and means Christ (see the similarity with Romanian language for Hristos) and "genna" comes from the verb "gennamai" which means to (give) birth in Greek.
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
22 Dec 11
It seams mylot did not recognize the Greek language :D That is what was written in brackets. Anyway I just wanted to add (because I saw above someone saying X comes from Christ) in Romanian we use both forms for the Son of God: "Cristos" and "Hristos" and both are used in various religious psalms and stories.
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• Pamplona, Spain
23 Dec 11
Hiya dragon, Agree with Greenmoo. If I write out a Christmas Card I never use Xmas at least not knowingly. If I don´t have enough room on the Card as I usually take time to write a few sentences on it as well I go over to the other side of the Card and write Christmas full name. No matter what Christmas will always be Christmas for me and I often celebrate my own little Christmas without anyone knowing it anytime of the year. Even if they obliterated the name altogether its always going to be here in my heart.xxx The Three Kings are celebrated the most here like it was in olden times everywhere I think Poland is the only Country that celebrates it the same as we do I mean the way they do it here and I always use the full name. I only use xxx at the end of something I have written.xxx
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
It's good to hear that you respect the name and meaning of Christmas. Have a happy one this year!
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• Pamplona, Spain
25 Dec 11
Hiya dragon, Many thanks dragon hope you are having a really good Christmas too. This Year they are celebrating Boxing Day here but only as a Holiday a temporary one. Right now I am cooking a leg of Lamb and I have to keep my eyes peeled on that as the electricity here is quite bad sometimes it could go off without me knowing it. All in all have a really good time whatever you are doing.xxx
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• China
23 Dec 11
As one who don't celebrate Christmas as a holy day, I think Cmas short for Christmas is reasonable ,just as St or S is short for saint .If I see Cmas, it is easy for me to associate it with Christmas.It seems to me that abbreviating Christmas to Xmas doesn't make sense.I didn't bear it in mind until I looked up it in the dictionary for several times.Now I guess Christmas was called Xmas for short,if it was because X was liken to Cross.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Many people don't celebrate Christmas as a religious holiday and that's fine with me. But demeaning it by replacing Christ with X is not okay. We don't put an X in Hanukkah or Ramadan but that's only because those holidays don't lend themselves to commercialization and greed. Thank you for respecting my idea.
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• China
24 Dec 11
I agree that Christmas is too commercialized these days.Many people take it as the way to make a fortune.
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@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
23 Dec 11
A friend told us almost the same thing a couple of days ago. She refuses to us Xmas and always use Christmas. She said it is because X connotes negative and it is like eXing out the real Person and the only Reason for the Season (Christ). I'm glad there are lots of people which realizes this. Advance Merry Christmas to everyone!
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
It's good to know that others feel as I do. Happy Christmas to you!
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
22 Dec 11
So right...and yes, I am guilty, even tho' I hold Christmas dear in my heart with reverance. Mentally lazy, and that shows lack of respect! I am glad that you, dear one, reminded me; the error ofsome of my ways. Duly noted..and duly respected! Thank you!
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
23 Dec 11
You are guilty of nothing! Xmas is a proper way to shorten Christmas. Look it up. It is not disrespectful in any way! People need to do their research before they get all in a hubbub about things like this.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
I thank you! I know that most people mean no disrespect when they do it because commercialism has programmed us to do it that way but it's always been a thorn in my side. Not many things really bother me but this has for years and years. It's nice to know that at least I'm reaching a few people. God bless you and have a very happy Christmas!
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@jillhill (37353)
• United States
23 Dec 11
You gotta wonder who shortened it like that...probably someone in retail! I think we could probably use the whole word and it wouldn't stress any of us out!
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
X was the Greek letter for Christ and it used to be used as a respectful abbreviation. But you're right, retail latched onto it and used to to replace the sentiment with greed. And that's mainly what I object to--robbing us of the meaning of Christmas and replacing sentiment with greed. Happy Christmas to you!
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Dec 11
hi dragon54u yes I hate that xmas its so demeaning and takes C hrist out of the picture.dare I say I am a Christian and believe in God 'and Christ. there are several disparaging discussions out not that point a finger at us Christians and insist in airing their disbelief on Christmas and try to shake our faith. I say leave us Christians alone to celebrate Christmas as we see fit. I do not start in on those who do not believe so why do that t o us. It depresses me and I want to enjoy Christmas time and family time and worship whom I wish to.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
I understand why you would get upset. I feel kind of ganged up on, too, sometimes. Those who don't believe are a lot like the fundamentalists who feel they have to preach and convert. Both are extremists who have no consideration or respect for people. Hatley, you have a happy, blessed Christmas! I'll think of you while I enjoy a piece of birthday cake with Him.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Dec 11
so sorry dragon. i do it all the time and never realised it seemed that way. frankly, at this point, im hating christmas, but not Christ Jesus. i love him with all my heart. its supposed to be about him. but right now it doesnt seem to be. people use it for an excuse to drink, spend money they dont have, and over indulge in nearly every thing on earth. i dont even think its the right date. ive heard he was actually born in april or there abouts. hardly no one celebrates his birth these days. its not what they are doing
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
It's become an easy holiday to hate because it has turned into what you said--a financial drain, an almost forced obligation, a dangerous time to be on the roads and a time of stress. I enjoy giving gifts but it has really gotten out of hand. When I was little we got one gift from Santa, a tradition I continued with my own children. We saved our allowances to get little things for Mom and Dad and the grandparents. It had meaning, there was sacrifice and gratification plus a candlelight service on Christmas Eve. Now it's just commercial. I was hoping that replacing X with C would at least bring a little more meaning to it. I've heard that He was likely born in the spring, when the gov't was likely to make the people come to pay their taxes. Shepherds were in the fields, which they would not be if it was winter. And summer here is winter over there. Don't stress, Bunny! Enjoy Christmas as much as possible in your safe haven of home. I hope your Christmas is wonderful!
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
23 Dec 11
You make sense. But I guess, X came to represent the cross. That was the only letter that matched pictorially, and phonetically. (cross).
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Yes, in the past the X had meaning. Now it is used to remove the meaning and make it a commercial event. Happy Christmas to you!
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• India
22 Dec 11
I always wondered why not C as rightly pointed out instead of X in Xmas. Must have some significance...if someone could share it.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
A couple of people here have mentioned that X is the Greek letter that means Christ. Xmas was quite common a hundred years ago when Christmas was still a holy day. But the X has become meaningless, another way to promote crass commercialism and turn a holy day into a day for conspicuous consumption. I don't object to the X so much as the lack of meaning behind it, which is why I propose that if one must abbreviate they use C instead of X.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
23 Dec 11
Yes, my friend, you have your point. From now on i will abbreviate Christmas as CMas. Not just as a respect to a Holiday that means so special, to us Catholics, but as a reminder that to us, Catholics it's the natal day of Jesus Christ. Thanks for respecting our tradition, my friend.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
I think all religions should be respected and not demeaned like replacing Christ with X. I wish you a very blessed Christmas!
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
To that, i totally agree, my friend. Happy New Year !
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
23 Dec 11
I disagree. Xmas is not a bad thing to say! It originally came about with X as a greek way to say Christ. There for Xmas = Christmas. By saying Xmas people are not taking the meaning out of Christmas, they are just saying it faster and that's not a big deal. It's one of the things I think too many people make a deal about when, if you actually did the research, you would see that Xmas is appropriate. Cmas makes no sense.
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Who says it is not true anymore? Who says it's used to make people forget the meaning of Christmas? Most people I know who use Xmas are religious people who love Christmas and celebrate the meaning behind it. Xkah and Xadan doesn't make sense because the X in this case stands for Christ. I guess we will just have to agree to disagree.
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
23 Dec 11
And any Christian that is OFFENDED by Xmas obviously does not know the true meaning of the X. People are too easily offended in this world.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
That used to be true but not anymore. The X is now used as a convenience and a way to make people forget the true meaning of the holiday so that they will spend money they don't have and put money in the pockets of businesses. The X is no longer a holy symbol but is put there in an effort to make Christmas a non-religious holiday of gift giving. Of course, anyone can use any abbreviation they choose because it is a free country. I'm just asking for Cmas as a gesture of respect for my religion. You would certainly not think to refer to Ramadan as Xadan or Hanukkah as Xkah, would you? No, you would be offending those religions so why willfully offend Christians? Just a thought. I hope you have a blessed Christmas however you celebrate it.
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• United States
7 Jan 12
I know you weren't looking for replies, but this one sticks out for me very much this year (Well last year, but still) I have always felt that you should always spell out Christmas, but your idea is great too, since it at least includes the first letter of His name. But I write for a different reason. Last year, I was totally disgusted by a teacher that told my daughter that it was "The Mexicans" that created the word Xmas because along with taking up all the US jobs and resources, they are trying to take Christ out of Christmas too" I'm glad you wrote this post and I saw it today. It reminds me of the outrage I felt when my daughter repeated this to me that day and that I need to call the school about this teacher. Now, yes I am upset at illegal aliens from Mexico coming into the United States and taking our resources; but don't teach my daughter lies about these people to make her hate them! Don't turn the Mexicans into boogeymen! On top of this, no matter of their wrongdoing, the most popular religion in Mexico is Catholicism! Which means many of them believe in Jesus! Like I said thank you for writing this post because I have a very long talk with the school's principal on Monday.
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• United States
8 Jan 12
That is so true!!! If the US made it so they couldn't get welfare or jobs without the proper identification and citizenship, there'd be no reason for them to even sneak in!
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
8 Jan 12
I am disgusted that a teacher would spread lies like that!! No matter what our immigration problems are, the fault lies not with the invaders but with our protectors that refuse to protect our borders. I'm glad you are having a talk with the principal--the world has enough hate in it without "educators" spreading more. When I was in my 20's I lived hand to mouth. I could not afford a "good" neighborhood and so rented a little cabin in a "bad" neighborhood where I was living in the Southwest. I was just about the only white person there in a place populated by Mexicans. I could not have had better neighbors!! Strong family values, deeply spiritual, these people watched out for me and extended me every courtesy. They valued honor, integrity and God. One time when a man was bothering me when I came home from work one night I found half a dozen strong young men coming to my defense. At least Mexicans know what is valuable in their lives. I know there are Mexican gangs and all that but things like that affect all cultures. I wish that teacher would take the time to get to know people and different cultures--she (or he) might have a degree in education but doesn't know much. Willful ignorance like that infuriates me.
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
22 Dec 11
Hi Dragon, I've been guilty of Saying the X word as you know. And I'm sure you know that like many, I meant no disrespect at all. I love the holiday ...all aspects of it. Galena made a comment that struck a little memory with me. I thought I'd heard the same thing back when I was a kid but wasn't sure. I looked it up and posted the link under her response. Hope it was insightful. I wanted to comment at that time but had a friend knock on the door and had to jump off from here. I actually didn't read the entire article as my friend has a tendency to stay for long periods and I have to go to work in a bit and was afraid I'd forget much later on. Anyway, I don't mind saying Cmas regardless.
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Yes, it has. That is why it's so important to hold the values that are important to us and pass them on to our kids. I see parents stressing out and going broke to put all these expensive things under the tree. It's such a stressful time for so many that you have to wonder how they could possibly enjoy it. I mean if that's what they want for their holidays to be then they should go for it but I have to think many of them buy that thought because they feel obligated to. I love every aspect of Christmas. I even love the gift part. I love picking out gifts for others that I think they will like. I understand how someone could get into that thought of feeling that they want to or should do more. I battle that feeling at times but in the end ...it's not what it's all about. I stick to what I have to spend and plan carefully before I go out shopping. I remember one of my girls handing me a list and then getting all frustrated because she got very little on her list. She was young but knew that I was "Santa". I told her that I don't do lists. I glanced at her list for some ideas but in the end, that is MY fun..going around shopping to surprise them. And I added that it should be HER fun too...that element of surprise is what makes it so fun. As she got older she agreed that she loved the surprise factor.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
22 Dec 11
Hi, Sid! Yes, it was very helpful and I read something like that years ago when I was trying to find out why the X replaced Christ. The X used to mean something, way back then, but no more. It's just commercialized now, which is why I proposed using C for abbreviating. It's not just Christmas, though--everything in life has become corrupted and commercialized and greedy. Have a wonderful, happy Christmas!
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@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
31 Dec 11
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PX Not a referal link Hi dear Dragon you find more here so I dont find Xmas offensive at all. We even have this "monogram" of PX beautifully stitched on the Priests Robes sometimes in the Catholic Church
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
31 Dec 11
I do not object to it in a religious context, RitterSport. The reason I object to it is because it is no longer used respectfully but as an abbreviation that takes the meaning out of Christmas. Several people have referenced the factual basis of the X but they are not taking into account that commercial interests have perverted it in such a way that it makes the holy day a generic occasion preceded by a frenzy of shopping and one-upmanship. Ask any random person on the street what Christmas means to them today and probably 75% will mention gifts and parties--the X has been used to banish anything spiritual and replace it with materialism. That's why I propose "C-Mas", to try to bring back some of the real meaning. People would not feel so empty and let down after Christmas if they celebrated it as a birthday and not as a gifting day. Commercialism has brainwashed the people and "X" has proven an effective tool.
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• Lippstadt, Germany
31 Dec 11
its no less commercial over here in good old Germany for sure. You buy stuff others wont need or use just cause you have to meet social expectations. You write a ton of cards which are not really read and appreciated, yet you are anxious to cut some people off your Christmas List though it would be more honest to do that. Plus I never understood why Christmas Gifts have to be really expensive stuff and you will spend hundreds of Euros or in your case Dollars cause only high priced stuff is considered a gift and you got to keep up with whom ever to be able to brag.
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@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
22 Dec 11
yeah, i wonder why it is used it x-mas for short..i think it would be better if we could use it as c-mas that would be different and good too :)
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
X, as others have pointed out, was the Greek letter for Christ and widely accepted for a long time. Then the retailers latched onto it and used it to help make people forget it was a day of love and generosity and good spirits and convinced people that they needed to spend, spend, spend--even if they could not afford it. I do like C-mas better if someone wants to skip a few letters. Happy Christmas to you!
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@indi15 (888)
• India
23 Dec 11
You are right, well thought. this should be done.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Thank you. I think all religious holidays of all cultures should be respected and not demeaned as they have Christmas. Have a wonderful new year!
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