cathy78513

@cathy78513 (283)

Philippines • Age 45

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What do you prefer to bring when you go for a shopping, Cash or Credit card?

DenverLC @DenverLC (1143) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

I do bring both sometimes. But I came to realize, its better to bring only limited amount to avoid being tempted to shop and shop more even beyond whats really needed and necessary. What about you?

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cathy78513 I always bring enough cash and my atm cards whenever I go to the mall to shop or just to stroll. Most of the time I look around first, looking for the best buys. Although I always end up just eating because I got tired of walking and looking around. I don't...

22 Mar 10

cheating girlfriend

carloadriancanon @carloadriancanon (206) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

How would you know if your girlfriend is cheating?

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cathy78513 There are a lot of ways to know whether someone is cheating or not. Check on all the warning signs like you can't seem to call her because her phone is always busy, she has no time for you, she always have a reason to cancel a date with you, always mad at you...

22 Mar 10

Do you want to gain or lose weight?

intelpink @intelpink (163) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

For my present weight, I really want to lose weight because it's hard for me to wear my favorite clothes at this time and I can't move faster anymore. The problem is that it's hard for me to lessen my food intake that makes me...

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cathy78513 I really really want to lose weight. I've gained a lot since I resigned from my work, my dress won't fit and my knees always hurt. I've tried a lot of diet pill but nothing seem to work. I used to walk an hour everyday but since I'm starting with my new work I...

22 Mar 10

What shall I wear to the wedding?????

liquorice @liquorice (3887) 2 Jul 09

I'm in a dilemma. I have three possible dresses to wear to a family wedding on Sunday. I keep trying them on, but I'm not getting any further with deciding. So I'd appreciate any opinions. The dress code is "Lounge Suit". And...

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cathy78513 I think the third one will look good on you especially when you add some accessories like a pearl earrings and necklace or some sparkling earrings or necklace to suit the evening reception. You may also add some details to the dress to make it look brand new...

5 Jul 09

Just Merried

theluckyme @theluckyme (7) • Indonesia 1 Jul 09

Two week ago i'm just merried. That's unforgotten moment in my life. Meet him about 3 month ago and now i'm not single again.I'm very happy. I hope the happines never ending.I love him very much.Although we get the long distance...

just merried

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cathy78513 Congratulations! I hope that even though you have less time spent together because of the distance you'll remain inlove with each other. I know that long distance relationships are really hard. When my boyfriend was sent in a project miles away from where I...

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Girls: does the ring have to have diamonds?

UK_Shree @UK_Shree (3603) 25 Jun 09

Or would you be as happy with an alternative precious stone on your engagement ring? I personally love the sparkle of a diamond as I am sure a lot of women do, but I do understand and appreciate that other precious stones can be...

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cathy78513 When my friend got engaged I really imagined myself having a diamond ring. But since we do not have enough money at that time we could only afford a silver pair. We are both happy with our rings but he promised to upgrade our rings. When my friend and her...

1 Jul 09

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Marriage Proposals

kellys3ps @kellys3ps (3723) • United States 25 Jun 09

I just read this article about celebrity marriage proposalshttp://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20287447,00.html?xid=email-breakingnews-20090625-20287447 I was expecting to read stories of over the top proposals (something...

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cathy78513 Mines not really romantic. We went from shop to shop looking for a ring which is very exhausting for both of us. When we finally found the one, the saleslady asked us if she will wrap the ring or will I just wear it, and we both answered wrap it. After we got...

1 Jul 09

How was in your honeymoon? How you dream your honey moon if you are not marry?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 22 Jun 09

I am sure that was great, you can t forgot your honeymoon, i think that was you great moment with your husband or wife. How you can imagine you honeymoon if you are not married yet? Where did you go for your honeymoon?...

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cathy78513 I really love the beach so I guess the perfect honeymoon destination for me is a week stay in Boracay. Every morning we could have our breakfast in bed or by the beach, have an early morning swim, visit the spas for a massage. We could try their barbeques and...

1 Jul 09

what is your ideal girl/boy?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 22 Jun 09

before i met my boyfriend. i like guys who are smart, silent type, doesn't have any vices, loyal, and i have to be his first girlfriend to be fair.. but i think having an ideal guy in mind is not advisable coz i will never learn...

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cathy78513 When I was younger me and my pals often talk about our ideal guy and most of the time I often gave them the same answer. The guy should be genius, good looking, athletic, taller than me, thoughtful, understanding and kind. When I entered college, my world...

23 Jun 09

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what's the best thing you've ever given someone?

netpabelonio @netpabelonio (99) • Philippines 21 Jun 09

it doesn't have to be expensive.... it feels very nice to give... especially, when you know that you gave something to a person who really deserves it.. waht was the best thing you've ever given somebody?

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cathy78513 On my boyfriends 27th birthday, I really have no enough money to buy him something special. I asked him is there something he really wanted to have for his birthday so I could raise funds for it. He answered something which I made all by myself. I thought of...

22 Jun 09

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How long do you live together after you became lovers?

wzsj0501 @wzsj0501 (157) • China 21 Jun 09

In China,it is a traditional custom that only after wedding,the lover can live together. It is a continued custom from 5000years.I think it is right and it means ture responsibility to each other. But nowadays,heaps and heaps of...

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cathy78513 I'm from a Catholic country, we were also brought up following what our religion teaches us, that is to be married first before living together. However, nowadays more and more couples becoming liberated. I think its because of the change in environment, the...

22 Jun 09

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My wedding planning and advises

mypriv8link @mypriv8link (180) • Philippines 21 Jun 09

My boyfriend of 7-years proposed to me last Feb.22,2009 in a private island called Sumilon Island on our 7th year anniversary. It was the best romantic island proposal...it's what I dreamed of and more. I could not have asked for...

wedding plans

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cathy78513 Wow! Congratulations to you and your fiance! Since you have a year of planning and you said you hired a planner then the easiest way for you to have less stress for your wedding is tell your planner ahead of time what you imagine and what you like to see in...

22 Jun 09

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Do you think it's best that couples that live together should get married??

virtualmirage @virtualmirage (494) • United States 21 Jun 09

Do you believe that couples that live together should get married?? Is a relationship stronger because of the commiment of marriage or is it the same to live with someone and the paper does not mean anything? I live with my...

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cathy78513 It depends on the couple, of how they were brought up by their parents, the environment they group up with. In some cultures it is okay to live together first before planning to get married but in some culture especially the religious ones, it is...

22 Jun 09

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I want to get married,but I have no money,no job,can I marry?

wzsj0501 @wzsj0501 (157) • China 20 Jun 09

I am a postgraduate just now,this summer I will graduate. but I have not find a suitable job.It is hard to find a job with my major zoology and insect. I AM 24 old.I want to get married,But I have no job,no money,If you were...

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cathy78513 I think all of us can get married and can have a family even if we don't have a job or money as long as we have someone who loves us and ask as to marry him or her. If you are not in a relationship it might be difficult to get married because you have to find...

22 Jun 09

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What is the best time span before someone get married?

Curlann @annierose (21955) • United States 20 Jun 09

I am confuse if there is a required length of time in order for a person to decide when he or she will get married. Some just get married soon even they just spend few months being in a relationship while others took years before...

time span before getting married

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cathy78513 For me the length of time being together does not matter as long as they truly love each other and they are both ready to tie the knot. It will really depend on the couple, how much they have known each other and how much they loved each other, and how much...

21 Jun 09

How much did you spend on your wedding photographer?

maezee @maezee (41985) • United States 20 Jun 09

Is it your idea that "the more you spend", the better the photographer will be? My cousin is getting married TONIGHT, actually, and paid 2K ($2,000) for her photographer! I find this to be a ridiculous amount. What about you?...

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cathy78513 I rather spend a thousand for the wedding rings, house decorations or honeymoon than a photographer. In my opinion the cost of the hired photographer will not guarantee that he or she may capture all the picture perfect shots of the whole event. I think before...

21 Jun 09

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Can I take my own pictures at a wedding?

maezee @maezee (41985) • United States 20 Jun 09

Or is this rude? I love photography and taking pictures - but I've heard from quite a few people that I shouldn't because it's the photographers' job, and not mine. What do you think? Is it RUDE to take pictures at a wedding...

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cathy78513 I think there is no problem in taking pictures of your own in a wedding especially if you really love taking pictures as long a you are not ruining the shots and interfere with the hired photographer. I guess you could take pictures after the photographer to...

21 Jun 09

How often do you think about getting married?

pinklemonade @pinklemonade (486) 19 Jun 09

I think about it everyday lol I guess it doesn't help that my boyfriend told me over 2 years ago that he wants to marry me yet hasn't proposed (we are still quite young though) I dream about the moment I am proposed too lol

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cathy78513 When I was younger I never thought of getting married. I always imagine myself having a job, travelling, driving my own car, living in my own house...things like that. When my fiance was still courting me, he told me that he wants to marry me, I did not...

21 Jun 09

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if you love someone?

junngee @junngee (9) • Philippines 19 Jun 09

if you love somebody but you know from the begging that person will not be with you in the end would you still figth for it? or you would just giveup?

loosing your love

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cathy78513 If you love somebody, then you should be willing to do anything for that person to be happy even if it means that you have to let go. I know it is difficult to love someone who does not love you back. It happened to me before, my guy friend fell in love with...

21 Jun 09