2/16/24 - Update on My Husband
By LindaOH
@LindaOHio (222624)
United States
February 16, 2024 12:41am CST
Yesterday I got a call from another person from the same organization that gave me all that "good" news. We basically went over the same things. This time she wanted to know if I wanted my husband on life support should it come to that.
The psychiatrist examined hubby yesterday. He said he has acute cognitive impairment. Whether that's hospital delirium or dementia, we don't know.
Hubs did manage to do PT yesterday. That's very good news. If he keeps it up, he's eligible to go to rehab.
I'm going to try to talk to his heart doctor today. I know there is something they can do for him...whether insurance will cover it at his age is another matter.
Thank you for your continued prayers, thoughts and concern. I'm blessed to have such good friends. I had a rough night last night; but I feel better mentally today.
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28 responses
@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
16 Feb 24
@LindaOHio It is very important, I know that if his heart is only working at 30% there is not a lot that can be done, but his doctor must know.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
16 Feb 24
I also want to speak to his heart doctor.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
16 Feb 24
Linda you are always in my thoughts and my prayers. I thought Americans didn't buy private health insurance coverage, and age had nothing to do with it. The system sucks if you have to buy private coverage. I should think it is hospital delirium. We should know tomorrow. Worrying too much is bad for your health. The last thing your husband needs. Tell yourself he will be alright, and he will be. Hugs.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
17 Feb 24
@wolfgirl569 I see. All that glitters is not gold about America then. Very complex for my tiny brain anyway.
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@wolfgirl569 (135881)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Feb 24
We have to buy insurance here. Medicare is available after you retire but you still are better off carrying what many call an advantage plan. It will cover a lot more than just having Medicare
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
17 Feb 24
Thanks, vanny. He is in rehab now. I'm hoping that he will participate.
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@wolfgirl569 (135881)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Feb 24
The life support one is one they often ask so they can have it in their records. It doesn't mean they think he is that bad. 
I know it's still scary. It sounds like he had a good day
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@wolfgirl569 (135881)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Feb 24
@MarieCoyle They ask me almost every time if I have a living will.
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@MarieCoyle (59266)
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16 Feb 24
A hospital in Minneapolis asked my Aunt if she had a DNR--when she was in the ER for a broken foot. I think when you hit a certain age in the US, they just ask due to rules and laws and regulations.
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@MarieCoyle (59266)
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17 Feb 24
@wolfgirl569
Yes, it's a very standard question. I think they are required to ask it, at least in some states? Not sure, I need to look that up.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
17 Feb 24
He is now in rehab. We will visit on Sunday.
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@sallypup (69206)
• Centralia, Washington
17 Feb 24
@LindaOHio Go on that progress! That's great that you get to visit with him tomorrow.
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@lovebuglena (52199)
• Staten Island, New York
18 Feb 24
I really hope it’s not dementia and that he gets out of the hospital soon.
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@lovebuglena (52199)
• Staten Island, New York
19 Feb 24
@LindaOHio Let's hope it's just hospital delirium.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
18 Feb 24
I hope it's just hospital delirium. He's in rehab now. He tried to get out of bed the first night and they found him on the floor! Sigh.
@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
19 Feb 24
@lovebuglena It's sounding more and more like dementia.
@MommyOfEli2013 (89745)
• Rupert, Idaho
16 Feb 24
I can't imagine how rough that would be to go through all that. Hopefully they can do something for him, and hopefully he keeps it up so he can go to rehab.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (89745)
• Rupert, Idaho
16 Feb 24
@LindaOHio Sending good thoughts...
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@snowy22315 (209061)
• United States
16 Feb 24
I am glad you are coping. I will say a prayer for you and hubby..
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@Juliaacv (56352)
• Canada
16 Feb 24
Have you scheduled an appointment to speak with his medical team?
I think that since there are different health issues coming into play, all of which may provide a different outcome, you should have your options explained to you.
It has been a very long haul for the both of you, it is time that they explain everything and how his conditions may interact with each other.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
17 Feb 24
He has been transferred to rehab. I have two contacts I can call with any questions I may have.
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@Juliaacv (56352)
• Canada
17 Feb 24
@LindaOHio That is good, now his body can return to normal.
I only hope for the best outcome.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
16 Feb 24
I think Anna had good advice to talk to the doctor or someone in person. Although I know that's very difficult for you with the travel. Thanks for keeping us informed.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
17 Feb 24
I have two contacts that I can call with any questions that I may have. He actually had 3 or 4 heart doctors working on his case.
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@Deepizzaguy (122238)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Feb 24
You are welcome. My pleasure to assist you in your time of need.
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@Deepizzaguy (122238)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Feb 24
@LindaOHio I will do my best to enjoy my weekend.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
17 Feb 24
I hope you will have a good weekend.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Feb 24
This is a hard situation, for you and your husband, too. I know God can intervene and heal him, at any time:)
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Feb 24
@LindaOHio You're welcome, Linda:)
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
21 Feb 24
@thelme55 You have a nice day too.
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@GardenGerty (169490)
• United States
17 Feb 24
It is good he participated in PT today. That is one thing that will help him, both physically and as a candidate for rehab.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
16 Feb 24
It sounds like the staff needs to all be on the same page there. They are causing you a lot of aggravation, upsetting you and giving you conflicting stories. I would call and talk to the supervisor and voice your concerns. Continued prayers for both of you!
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
16 Feb 24
Thank you, Karen. I want to talk to his heart doctor today too.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
17 Feb 24
@LindaOHio That should pave the way for some clarity!
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
16 Feb 24
I hope he keeps up his PT so he can go to rehab.
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@rebelann (117259)
• El Paso, Texas
16 Feb 24
I'm still praying that those doctors can actually figure out just what the problem is and either fix it or define it, once either one is done you'll have an easier time getting things that need doing done. I'm also praying that you'll be allowed to stay with him at least for 2 whole days and nights, that's probably the best thing they could do for both of you.
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@LindaOHio (222624)
• United States
17 Feb 24
It's impossible for me to stay 2 days. I would love to.
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@RasmaSandra (98041)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Feb 24
Hey, you're very much needed just hang in there and think positive. I keep praying, Just make sure you have a long talk with the medical staff and find out exactly what is happening before any kind of decisions get made, Virtual hugs,
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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17 Feb 24
So sorry to hear about your husband's condition. May the Lord give you strength and comfort during this hard time. I hope your husband's condition continues to improve and pray for his recovery.
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