3/1/24 - Update on My Husband

@LindaOHio (157044)
United States
March 1, 2024 4:50am CST
I am feeling cautiously optimistic. Hubby was very lucid yesterday, chatty and more like himself. He still thinks there is a movie out on his life; and he has trouble remembering details about our house. I am hoping he will gradually come out of that. I am thinking more and more that this was hospital delirium and not totally dementia. I'm not saying that he does NOT have dementia in some capacity because of the incidents that happened 3 or 4 months ago; but all the acting out, getting restrained, getting out of bed, not eating, has stopped. He ate a good portion of his entree yesterday; and he said that he fed himself for breakfast. That's excellent. He is still having trouble grasping and holding things with his left hand. That will need to be addressed. Rehab's diagnosis of dementia and having to put him in long-term care seems to be incorrect. The big obstacles to his coming home will be getting him through the surgery and then rehab. Your continued support is so appreciated! Photo Credit: Pixabay
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
1 Mar
Oh Linda i love reading these posotive updates. So happy to hear that hubby is improving. He just needed the proper care. Sounds like he is in a good place now there they really care about him and his health. Continued prayers.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
1 Mar
I think our visits help too by giving him familiar faces.
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@vandana7 (98942)
• India
1 Mar
Me too. The positive updates feel like the end of the tunnel is in sight.
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@vandana7 (98942)
• India
1 Mar
@LindaOHio Of course. That helps I am sure.
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@marguicha (215792)
• Chile
2 Mar
I dearly hope that all this will soon be part of an old nightmare. Take care
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@marguicha (215792)
• Chile
2 Mar
@LindaOHio From what you wrote, it seems that he is a bit better.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
@marguicha Yes, definitely!
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
I hope so too.
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@kareng (55119)
• United States
11 Mar
Yes, he was in a _ _ l l hole in that Rehab place!! So glad he is getting better care and diagnosis now and on the road to getting well!! Continued prayers for you both!!
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@kareng (55119)
• United States
13 Mar
@LindaOHio That is awesome!
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
13 Mar
@kareng Nope. He was transferred to another floor -- Surgical ICU at Cleveland Clinic.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
11 Mar
Thank you, Karen. He will be going back to rehab possibly today.
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@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
1 Mar
I am glad for this positive update. Do the hospital gave a date to transfer him to have surgery?
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
1 Mar
No one seems to know.
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@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
1 Mar
@LindaOHio This is depressing, I hope he is not in pain.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
@LadyDuck Yes, he's in pain. I just called him; and they are transferring him today!
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• United States
1 Mar
That does sound optimistic Linda and I hope and pray that he is able to come home eventually. I'm sure seeing you has helped too.
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• United States
2 Mar
@LindaOHio let's hope that he keeps improving
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
3 Mar
@Marilynda1225 Two weeks ago you wouldn't have recognized him. He has gotten over that "hospital delirium" for the most part.
@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
I know the visits have helped. He is improving every day.
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@Deepizzaguy (94838)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Mar
My pleasure to be praying for the recovery of your husband.
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@Deepizzaguy (94838)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Mar
@LindaOHio You are welcome.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Thank you so much.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Mar
Optimistic is good. Step by step, day by day, I will keep positive thoughts for you both .
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Mar
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Thank you very much.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
1 Mar
Good to hear about the positive update.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
1 Mar
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
1 Mar
Thank you, Bojel.
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@1creekgirl (40612)
• United States
2 Mar
Linda, that is an answer to so many prayers from all the people who love you both! Thank you for keeping us posted.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
You're very welcome. They are transferring him to Cleveland Clinic today.
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@just4him (307029)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar
I'm so glad things are turning around. I hope he can come home after rehab from surgery.
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@just4him (307029)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
1 Mar
I'm hoping so too!
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Mar
That is such good news to hear. I hope the surgery can take place soon.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
I'm hoping Monday or Tuesday.
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@lovebuglena (43081)
• Staten Island, New York
1 Mar
It’s bad when patients are misdiagnosed. Things seem to be improving, so that’s a positive thing. Hope it only gets better from here.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Thank you so much, Lena.
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@lovebuglena (43081)
• Staten Island, New York
2 Mar
@LindaOHio He has to come back home finally...
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
2 Mar
I am glad he is improving, those are very good news.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Yes, it certainly is.
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@sarik1 (6783)
3 Mar
Glad to know that positive update. hope that all is well.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
3 Mar
Thank you very much.
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@LeaPea2417 (36500)
• Toccoa, Georgia
1 Mar
This is good to read.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Yes, I'm very pleased.
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@RasmaSandra (73705)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Mar
I am glad to hear that things are improving and I hope the surgery will go well. I was just thinking that if his left had has problems somewhere along the line he might have had a stroke. Many blessings to you both and I keep praying,
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Turns out he's having problems with both hands. I need to ask someone about that.
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@sallypup (58088)
• Centralia, Washington
1 Mar
This report is much better than the previous ones. I hope you can find in home nursing care.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
He has to go to rehab first.
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@TheHorse (206373)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Mar
I am glad there is cause for optimism.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Yes, I am more than pleased with his recovery.
@porwest (78759)
• United States
1 Mar
Some hope on the horizon. Keep us updated and glad to hear what appears to be some good news.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
Yes, I'm thrilled.
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@MarieCoyle (28955)
1 Mar
I am sure it really does your heart good to see improvements! Hopefully, he will continue to improve. I am sure it really helps that he gets to see you and his sister every day, and that's no doubt a lot of the reason of his improvement. It's amazing what seeing loved ones can do for a person. It sounds like he is in a good facility with good care, which can mean so much.
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@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
2 Mar
I'm more than encouraged by his recovery.
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