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myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (17909)   ranked 810 out of 35,110 in people1 month ago

this just blows my mind!!

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091016/ap_on_re_us/us_interracial_rebuff

A JP (justice of the peace) in La. is denying an interracial couple a marriage license and admits that "he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them" BUT also claims he isnt a racist....IMO that IS being somewhat of a racist....In the article he is quoted as saying his reason for refusing to marry interracial couples is out of concern for the any children the couple may have together..because.... "There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage," Bardwell said. "I think those children suffer and I won't help put them through it."...Well this may be somewhat true HOWEVER...how can society move forward when there are ppl such as this JP who are holding our advancement up???? If its REALLY that much of a concern for him, why not work towards making it more acceptable...

BRAVO IMO to the couple in question for going to someone else AND looking into a possible discrimination case against this guy!

So whats your feelings on the subject? Do you think the JP is being unfair? How do you feel about interracial couples and marriages and why do you feel the way you do?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 77/100. missliss08 (172)   ranked 11,728 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

Not only is he being unfair, but he is playing judge, and jury to people who commit no crime. It is not against the law to be an interracial couple, and how dare he think he is all wise and knowing to say these children will suffer. The children born to these couples would never suffer if this ignorance that still plagues this society was not here


myLot reputation of 77/100. missliss08 (172)   ranked 11,728 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

Plus just denying them a marriage license will most definitely not stop them from having children. Really does this man live in the stone ages. People have children out of wed lock every day.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3277)   ranked 288 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

And something like this would serve to make even fewer people actually get married and more people just simply live together. Commonlaw is still recognized in some places, and people will do whatever they want if they want to badly enough. it doesn't matter who has their head up their @$$ lol.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. katsalot1 (874)   ranked 1,888 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

I had no idea that this sort of thinking still existed. I'm sure that JP won't get away with it, and I sincerely hope that people in Louisiana don't think the same way as him. Maybe he is senile?

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10241)   ranked 233 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

IMO ths JP is a racist from the word GO...PERIOD...The ONLY reason children from a biracial couple will have any problems whatsoever is because of IGNORANT people such as himself...I see NOTHING wrong with a person of color marrying a 'white' person. NOR do i see anything wrong with gays marrying each other......I say to each his own as long as there is LOVE in the relationship, & they are good to each other with NO abuse on either side, then let them be maried & be happy... I would also have files a discrimination suit against him, & i would definitly win the case....& have his job taken from him..Lori


myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (17909)   ranked 810 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

The ONLY reason children from a biracial couple will have any problems whatsoever is because of IGNORANT people such as himself

absolutely!! I am a biracial child as are my kids and other than a few ignorant ppl in my life and the odd few in my kids lives there isnt a problem...


myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10241)   ranked 233 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

This brings to mind the first summer i spent in Helena Arkansas in 1972.. I had gotten a job at the local Walmart.. had a black friend, well she & i went to go to lunch together in a restaurant,{don't remember name of it} & they came to take 'our' order,{or so i thought}, WELL the waitress proceeds to tell me they "DO NOT SERVE BLACKS". I'm from California, & have many, many friends of color, & I was APPALLED & PISSED that she would say something like that to me & my friend. I promptly got up told her where she could put her racist attitude & walked out, NEVER to return ever to that restaurant....I was also SHOCKED to see places that said 'whites only/blacks only".. I am NOT a racist & will stand up for any human being being treated in such a manner.. It just sickens me to no end...Ok off my 'soapbox'....lori


myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (17909)   ranked 810 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

I was also SHOCKED to see places that said 'whites only/blacks only"

IN THE 1970'S????? WOW I'm floored!! thats just nuts! shocked


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3277)   ranked 288 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

That is disgusting.... in the 70s to have that much ignorance... and then we fast forward to 2009 - 2009!!!! - and still face people like this. Makes me want to kill the guy!

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. syankee525 (3362)   ranked 403 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

this is sad that in our great country there is still racest crap. we all are God's chrildren

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. hvedra (180)   ranked 4,579 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

I could tell you what I think of the JP but I'd probably break the f on my keyboard!

His excuse that he is protecting any "children" is also laughable. Who says they will have any? How does he know that they will encounter problems (oh, yeah, people like him make _sure_ they will....). Does he imagine that any mixed race couple will split just because he says he won't marry them? They'll find someone who will marry them - or just live as if married. He's a really arrogant idiot if he thinks his refusal is stronger than their feelings for each other. Does he really imagine that anyone thinks "well, that JP says so, so it must be so"? What?

If two people love each other and want to make a commitment like marriage then they should be allowed to do so.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. good2go2001 (356)   ranked 9,503 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

I think that City needs to hire another JP that has more open views to handle these types of marriages. I dont feel its right to discriminate and there needs to be other options provided so that its not a issue for mixed race couples. Its not fair to provide the service to only certain couples and not fair that this couple had to go elsewhere to get the service. Very concerning that this type of thinking would be still happening in todays times.

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. syankee525 (3362)   ranked 403 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

its stuipd.. uncall for this is 2009 not 1950 or 60's

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. Pose123 (5701)   ranked 854 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

Hi Ravenladyji, I also agree with you on this one and see nothing wrong with interracial marriage. One of my sons, and we are of the Angle Saxon white race whose forefathers came from England, is married to a Filipino and a they have a very beautiful daughter. I think that the JP is thinking that the young people of today have the same racist attitude as his generation, and I don't believe that to be true. I'm happy that they didn't let this man stop them from getting married. Blessings.

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9. myLot reputation of 33/100. barrudaki (1262)   ranked 6,098 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

Read about this yesterday.

I am a firm believer if two consenting adults love each other they should be allowed to marry if they so choose. Interracial couples or children have never bothered me, Some of the most beautiful children and people are bi-racial.

I think the JP in this case should literally take his head out of his arse. It sounds like he has more than the reasons listed for not wanting to marry interracial couples. Maybe one of his kids is dating a person of a different race ormaybe he is trying to justify why he didn't marry someone of a different race so he doesn't have to feel guilty.

The only trouble bi-racial kids and couples have are ignorant people like the JP giving them a hard time because ignorant people have a hard time wrapping their head around a concept called unconditional love.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. hexeduser22 (659)   ranked 11,138 out of 35,110 in people   1 month ago

I think he has some points with regards to the children but I can tell he is definitely sick. He's being unfair and is not really helping them. I could tell he is a hypocrite and he even betray his own words. Everyone is created equal so everyone has the right to be married, no matter what the color of your skin, just as long as you love each other.


myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (17909)   ranked 810 out of 35,110 in people  1 month ago

I think he has some points with regards to the children

Just out of curiousity...what points does he have in your opinion in regards the any possible children?

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