APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE

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The growing loneliness pandemic worldwide

Emmanuel Adelakun @ogbenishyna44 (1785) 26 Mar

There seems to be a growing trend worldwide these days and that is the loneliness pandemic. Seems many people no longer find dating easy or they just dont find the challenges necessary. What other things could have caused this and...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Too much dependence on AI and too less of social interaction outdoors is the result of growing loneliness. Many have lost the older generation in Covid...Older people are the best guides. Too many options/choices in the phone keeps one hooked, addicted....

8 May

Crazy Things About Love

Shavkat @Shavkat (141906) • Philippines 1 Apr

There are so many things going on when it comes to loving someone or some things in life. I must admit that it adds shades of life. It could be the happiest or the saddest to experience. It is up to us to embrace the changes and...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE There's a lot of energy spent in handling break-ups. When once you start prioritizing things in your life and get the strength to move on, it helps.

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Rather Emoitional

celticeagle @celticeagle (190543) • Boise, Idaho 3 Apr

Well, I had a chocolate malt and watched a couple more episodes of Season One of "The Madison". It's the new series on Paramount Plus with Michelle Pfeifer and Kurt Russell. She's a New Yorker, a city girl through and through....

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Just watched City of Angels, Kate and Leopold at one stretch.. Meg Ryan is a class in herself. I love Michelle Pfeiffer.

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Those Bad Moves

celticeagle @celticeagle (190543) • Boise, Idaho 28 Apr

Haven't we all done things, made choices, that turned out to be a bad move? It's part of being human. But most of us learn from our mistakes. Then there are people like Donald J. Trump. His decisions constantly misses the mark....

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE He has taken up so much of the public Mindspace...phew that's an achievement!!

8 May

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I need your thoughts or opinions about this one.

rosé @mnglsp (3767) • Philippines 10 Apr

I have a friend, and she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is known as someone who doesn't post much about his personal life. Sometimes, my friend feels like he is somehow hiding her, since he is kind of popular in our...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE That he is being honest and one should respect his honesty.

8 May

White colour in flowers really enhances mood

Dr Souvik Chatterji @sathviksouvik (23317) 13 Apr

I have both forms of jasmine the juhi and mogra in pots in my balcony. I find that the white colour has a special effect on eyes. The eyes are directly related to white colour. When we see many blossomed jasmine flowers together...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Jasmine and any other flower, white in colour, freshly bathed in the rain is a feast to the eys.

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Can you apologise to yourself?

SIDDI KIMPOLE @SIDIKIMPOLE (3491) • Eldoret, Kenya 19 Apr

We all make mistakes – to others and to ourselves. Mistakes towards others is self-explanatory. Mistakes against ourselves vary. For instance when I was drinking heavily, I made many mistakes – most of which were against myself....

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Good you did. But when it comes to a knowing where others have been affected for your conscious misgiving, it's annihilating bro...you just can't overcome that feeling of guilt. Apologizing to God is easier than apologizing to oneself.

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Virtual Relationship

Shavkat @Shavkat (141906) • Philippines 21 Apr

For some people, they do not prefer to love someone from afar. Personally, I do not mind having a virtual relationship as long as it is guaranteed to be loyal to such a relationship. It is between the souls that, in time, they...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Please don't go for all this. You don't know who's human who's a bot. Now-a-days AI has taken over the human heart. Be aware!

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Welcome back to me

clrumfelt @clrumfelt (5597) • Tennessee Ridge, Tennessee 26 Jan

I've missed all my MyLot buds for many months now. I had total knee replacement on my right knee last August, and the past few months have been all about pain management and becoming able to do things for myself again. I am nearly...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Nice way of dealing with pain.

12 Feb

7 years.. Still searching.

Krystal Johnson @Hazeleyesx (29) • United States 6 Jan

It's been 7 years. And I have not found myself where I want to be. I'm okay just not better from my point of view. I came on here looking for solutions or inspiration and left it so suddenly. I'm now back and want to fill in the...

advice

struggle

mylot

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Probably if you'd not left suddenly you'd have had your achievements of 7 years sharing here. But yes, there are glitches and I have also been in and out of MyLot.

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Jokes

Laura @Laurakemunto (13787) • Kenya 7 Jan

Had a guy in my work place after a meeting he followed me and asked for my number. He was with a colleague of his. I asked why he said he'll tell me. Now the guy texted , asked for a relationship which I was open to it and said...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE I feel you shouldn't have said 'yes', not knowing about him completely, in the first place. He might have lost interest because you complied. It's like, the pattern is from apprenticeship one works to develop friendship and if both feel they are comfortable in...

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Zen story: The koan of the throne

emptychair @innertalks (23756) • Australia 19 Jan

The old Zen master had died, and he went up to Heaven, where the doorkeeper there, gave him a koan to solve, before he could get in. The doorkeeper said to him, "You solved many an Earthly koan while alive, but can you...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Only those who have in them the bit of God that says 'you and I are One' are let in. God is not separate from any one....when this realization will dawn, earth will turn into heaven.

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Celebrating a short life

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (169744) • United States 13 Jan

I did go to the viewing at the funeral home today. For those not from the US, that is often a custom. You visit the family and see memories of the person who has died. Often they are in their casket to be seen. I was not going to...

january 2026

funeral customs

freedom

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE When he passed away, this boy was only 14. The elder of the two, he was a darling not only to his mother but also to his friends, teachers and all those who knew him. He had multiple tumors in his brain that formed after he was diagnosed with one and was...

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The dams look beautiful in winter

Dr Souvik Chatterji @sathviksouvik (23317) 4 Jan

Panchet Dam is a good dam built on river Damodar. Damodar Valley Corporation built the dam. The turbulent water of river Damodar during monsoon is stopped by the gates of the dam. The dam waters are used for cultivation of crops...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Panchet is quiet while Mython has a lot of activity...

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When everything goes wrong on a bad day, it is best to relax!

Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3853) • India 19 Feb 25

I had a very bad day! Morning, I find my laptop battery has issues and need to be replaced! Already battling a financial crunch, I am not sure how long I can delay the fix. I lost $100 while trying to buy an app. The app did not...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE When everything goes bad there's something happening outside the direct experience...So yes, it's better to pause, reflect accept, with the thought that that time flies and change will take place.

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Is immediate fix better or should repairs be delayed for better outcomes?

Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3853) • India 22 Feb 25

I have a friend who ensures that anything is damaged, he would have it fixed at earliest. He does not rest till the broken item is back to normal or replaced. One of my neighbours on the other hand has been quite the opposite, he...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE I believe in A stitch in time saves nine... It will be different with different people...those who are retired for example, will take more time, just to keep themselves engaged.

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Is mental resilience inherited or acquired through experience?

Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3853) • India 25 Feb 25

We often have heard tales of people succeeding in spite of odds. In every sphere of life, we meet people and some of them have good mental resilience. Their ability to cope with challenges and bounce back from things has always...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE For some it is innate, yes. Otherwise experiences are the greatest teachers.

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Are wishlists useful for people in relationships when buying gifts, or is it more fulfilling to choose something based on mutual understanding?

Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3853) • India 26 Feb 25

One of my colleagues who is in a relationship was asking others for guidance when it comes to buying gifts. One of the suggestions he received was surprising to me. It was to get hold of wishlist of the other person. The argument...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Did you find out what he bought after all?

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When people become a nuisance while on the road

Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3853) • India 9 Mar 25

I was driving in the National Highway yesterday, driving close to 50km/hr. It was a two-way road due to some renovation. All of a sudden, I see two people coming at good speed in a scooter trying to overtake a bus and I had to...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Some people deliberate on such foolish acts to announce their foolishness. It is because of them that the progressive mindset hasn't been set yet.

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Finally, against all odds, I am back to Mylot!

Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3853) • India 30 Dec

I initially thought to just respond to a few discussions, but then DE and Valerie noticed that I was back after a long gap. I’ve been away for the past nine months, dealing with challenges coming at me from all directions in life....

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE It is said that time heals...you'll hopefully win the case. Keep the faith. Travelling for job related issues or keeping your peace?

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