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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Jehanne I won't say love you if I'm not use saying it especially to people I'm not close with. Yes, just like you a word love, I love you is very meaningful to me. If someone say it or it comes from me, it should be sincere, no pretend or being pressure to say it.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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LindaOH I don't see the photo. I feel very awkward when someone says I love you because I know they want you to say it in return.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Judy Evans I can't see a photo unfortunately. I don't use 'I love you' casually.I'm like you. I'd only use it to a very few close family members.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Jessica I heard of church people saying this, but I never say it to someone I barely know. Once a guy who had mental problems had told me he loved me. I barely knew him. I told him that he doesn't know me. I ended up blocking him.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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DE I don't know anybody that uses "love you" that casually. I say it to friends I've known for years and with some of my family. Anybody I don't know well saying it to me would make me uncomfortable. I would simply ignore it if I didn't feel that way, too.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Anna I hate when people I barely know greets me with "love you". It's not a phrase we say to people we do not know here in Italy. "Love you" is only for your husband or your boyfriend, not even your parents, we have a different phrase for them.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Juliaacv I don't have people casually tell me that they love me at all. There are a select few friends who will tell me that, but quietly, which is appreciated. My family will say it given they have the opportunity to say it right to me and not call it across the room...

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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celticeagle Is the love something they want from you? If it makes you that uncomfortable tell them. It is something this person does with others too or just you?

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Jimbo45 " love you" There you go. Casual use of love you I said those words to a Magnum Ice Cream Bar,

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Angie Yeah, I agree, it's used to much and by. People who wouldn't pee on me if I were on fire. I think it's used more as an intent of control and manipulation. And as you said they get mad when you don't fall for it. Keep your boundaries!

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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LK2018 Depends on the person really. It can change anytime as the person changes.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Toni I know exactly what you mean as I feel the same way. I'm not comfortable when people are saying it casually. I recently saw Marty Supreme by Timothee Chalamet and in that movie Marty would say I love you to his friends and family when he is in need of...

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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Lenore Plassman I've never heard "love you!" put that casually. Put that way it sounds like manipulation; emotional blackmail.

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 16 Mar

I know this is a strange topic, but there are people I am not close to, who continuously will say "I love you", or one person will say, "you know I love you, so..." and it is very uncomfortable. I'd like to get your take on...

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mynameiskate Not a strange subject at all. I'm in the same mindset as you described here. Like any word it can be misused or overused. I've heard foul words being used in a funny way but that is a rarity. It really depends on the person and in what context. If someone is...

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celticeagle @celticeagle (186883) • Boise, Idaho 15 Mar

I think we all have food rituals, things we eat certain times of the year. But do have certain music you listen to at certain times of the year, and movies you watch too? Like The Wizard of Oz for example. I can remember watching...

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Jimbo45 @Ineeddentures (22782) 15 Mar

Do you smoke? Cigarettes, a pipe or cigar, I do And I roll my own I use a rolling machine, a filter, a paper and some tobacco One 50g pack of tobacco cost £20 and lasts 3 weeks 1 pack of 20 cigarettes costs £14 and lasts...

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LooeyVille @LooeyVille (36) • United States 15 Mar

Either that or she's making things up. She has Alzheimer's and is living in a Memory Care facility. She's telling us an unbelievable story that she says happened Thursday night. Here's the story she told: "It was after dark,...

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Loretta @noni1959 (12773) • United States 8 Mar

I’ve been collecting little treasures from thrift stores lately and I’m really enjoying my small cart corner beside my bed. I use it instead of an end table, with a small three-drawer apothecary table on the other side. I’ve...

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decor

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Anna @noni1959 - We bought two new identical desks when we moved here.

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Marie Coyle @MarieCoyle (56090) 14 Mar

Appliances and gadgets...when they work, they are great. When they don't work, it's frustrating, especially when it's a kitchen appliance you count on. Earlier in the week, my blender gave up the ghost and just died of old age....

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Marie Coyle I do know the blender was probably 25-30 years old. The bullet was a bit newer but not by much. I did know they were getting old, I just never thought of them going to appliance heaven together.

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Judy Evans @JudyEv (374821) • Rockingham, Australia 10 Mar

The leader of Australia’s National party has resigned and some, not all, are agog waiting to find out who the new leader will be. Why I’m writing about it is because the word ‘resile’ came up in the article and I...

australia

resile

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Judy Evans @noni1959 You can tell when someone is doing this. I would have choked on my coffee too.

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